In a now-viral post, a bride-to-be revealed that she told her sister to change her bridesmaid dress or she wouldn’t be welcome at the wedding.
Drama, especially family drama, can turn a dream wedding into the worst nightmare of your life. The months leading up to the big day can destroy relationships, and eventually, the situation will reach a breaking point. Take it from this woman in the popular “Am I the A——” (AITA) subreddit, who’s fighting with her sister over her bridesmaid dress.
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The original poster, who goes by the handle u/benicenotstupid, revealed that she has some pre-wedding drama with her family. In the post, the bride-to-be said if her older sister didn’t find a new bridesmaid dress, she would no longer be welcome at the wedding.
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Read on for all the known details. Plus, stick around to hear what social media has to say.
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A bride disinvited her sister from her wedding over her bridesmaid dress.
The OP explained that she and her sister were raised in a liberal home where they were allowed to wear “anything or nothing at home.” She noted that her older sister frequently donned skimpy outfits, and though it never bothered her, it has now become an issue — wait, why?
Well, the wedding, of course! The OP is getting married, and her older sister plans to wear a relatively racy gown. She described her sister’s bridesmaid dress, claiming it clearly shows “she’s not wearing a bra or panties because it has a slit up to her waist and her back and chest are barely covered.”
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The OP likened her sister’s dress to Beyoncé’s pink thigh-slit gown worn during the ‘Renaissance World Tour.’
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The OP added that she would feel uncomfortable with her sister being around other people, especially her fiancé and his family, in a skimpy dress. Although her parents don’t see anything wrong with it, the OP doesn’t think it’s wedding-appropriate. As a result, the OP told her older sister if she doesn’t find something else to wear, she’s no longer one of the bridesmaids — and she will no longer be welcome at the wedding.
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The OP’s sister isn’t happy, saying the bride-to-be is being unfair since she has “no right to control what people wear, and I also let all bridesmaids choose whatever design they wanted as long as they stuck to the colors I gave.”
She pointed out that although her sister’s dress sticks to the color scheme, she doesn’t particularly like the design. The OP wrote, “I don’t want my sister flashing my guests, but she called me an AH when I disinvited her.”
And now, the OP’s parents aren’t talking to her — but her fiancé said he would “go with what I decided.”
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Reddit unanimously agrees that the OP needs to stand her ground.
The now-viral post received over 3,800 comments from Redditors who agreed that the OP’s sister is wrong.
“Put your foot down that your sister will not be dressing like she is going to an MTV music awards show — or she will not be in your wedding,” one person penned. “Because you are the damn bride, and in this case, you can control what your bridal party — and even guests — wear.”
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A second Reddit user agreed, writing, “Exactly. Being asked to adhere to a dress code for one day on one of the most important days in your sibling’s life isn’t a difficult ask, and following it is the considerate thing to do.”
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“NTA. That dress is totally inappropriate for your wedding,” another Redditor replied. “This is also incredibly attention-seeking, and she’s not the main character at your wedding. She should choose something else.”
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Someone else commented, “If it was at a wedding in my family, people wouldn’t be offended. They’d just laugh at how desperate she seems.” OK, that’s a little harsh, but yes, we agree that the dress isn’t appropriate for a wedding.
What do you think? Would you let someone wear a dress like that to your wedding? Let us know!
Amazon will no longer accept Venmo as a payment option starting in January 2024. Why has Amazon decided to drop the payment service?
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The Gist:
Amazon announced that it will no longer be accepting Venmo as a payment method for purchases beginning on Jan. 10, 2024.
The tech giant hasn’t explained its decision, but some have speculated that Venmo wasn’t a secure enough payment platform to partner with Amazon.
Amazon will still take payment from Venmo debit and credit cards.
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Although Amazon offers its users many things, one of the things it prizes most is convenience. You can order things quickly, and they’ll ship to you almost immediately. Another way that the tech giant has maximized convenience is by allowing you to pay for goods in a huge variety of different ways.
Recently, though, Amazon announced that it will no longer be accepting payments through Venmo starting early in 2024. Now, many want to know why Amazon decided to stop accepting Venmo payments. Keep reading for all of the details.
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Why did Amazon drop Venmo?
In Amazon’s announcement that it will no longer be accepting Venmo payments, the company didn’t explain its decision. The tech giant did emphasize that there are still many ways for users to pay for orders, including using a credit card and through Apple Pay.
Amazon said that the change would be effective on Jan. 10, 2024, and that users would have to switch their payment method before then.
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The company placed a particular emphasis on any subscriptions that might be tied to a Venmo account, as those will be charged automatically and be rejected if the payment information isn’t updated.
Also, Amazon clarified that while payments from Venmo itself will be banned, payments from Venmo credit cards or debit cards will still be allowed, just like most other major credit cards.
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Because Amazon hasn’t explained its decision, all the public can do is speculate about why it may have decided to ban Venmo. Amazon might be launching some sort of rival service, and it wants to preemptively remove Venmo so that users will have to sign up for its service instead. Ultimately, though, we won’t know for sure until Amazon decides to explain the decision.
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Some think that people were using Venmo to scam Amazon.
Another potential reason that Venmo payments are no longer allowed is that Venmo wasn’t a safe enough payment platform, which meant that some users were able to use it to orchestrate scams.
Venmo was created largely to allow people who knew one another to directly transfer cash back and forth without an intermediary like a bank. It wasn’t designed to be used as payment for larger companies.
Although services like Venmo have some pretty obvious perks, there are also some downsides when it comes to things like security. Amazon is one of the largest retailers in the world, and that obviously means that it wants its marketplace to be a safe place for buyers and sellers to do business, even if that means that people who pay with Venmo are out of luck.
A dad and his two kids are going viral on TikTok after they accidentally saw a Christmas gift on their doorstep, ruining the surprise.
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There’s something undeniably magical about Christmas, especially when you’re a kid and you get to wake up in the morning and see the gifts that Santa brought you in the middle of the night.
You thank your parents for allowing the jolly, large, bearded man to come into your home and hook you up with all of the gifts you’ve been begging them to get you.
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You don’t question the economics of how Santa manages to make deals with companies from across the globe that are at the top of their respective industries. Nor do you really care about how one man is able to make so many deliveries in a single night or how he gets into houses without chimneys.
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You just know that there’s no better feeling than tearing open that wrapping paper and seeing that special gift you’ve been thinking about for a long time.
And even if you don’t believe in Santa Clause or that Elves are making handshake deals with Japanese gaming companies to manufacture Nintendo Switches, you can still enjoy that element of surprise.
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That is, unless an ill-timed delivery ruins the magic for you, which is what happened to this family in a viral TikTok and it looks like their doorbell camera recorded the entire thing.
TikToker @frankpappalardo writes in a text overlay of the clip: “The problem with ordering online when you have kids…”
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In the clip, a dad can be seen coming home with his two daughters — it looks like they were picked up from school. And what was waiting for them? A giant box containing a toy that one his kids was really, really excited about.
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Unsure of how to cover up the fact that the big Christmas surprise was effectively ruined at that moment, he stammers through some excuses that even the most gullible of children probably wouldn’t believe.
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It’s hilarious to see him react in real-time, cussing up a storm and trying to convince the girls that they didn’t see the gifts or that it actually wasn’t for them but for someone else, but those kids seemed to know what was up.
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Which means that they’ll have to play the waiting game until Christmas when they can finally open the gift.
It’s difficult to not wonder though: was he not receiving email updates about the status of his delivery? If it was delivered from Amazon he should’ve received a notification that it was delivered.
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Or perhaps the source of his ire was the fact that he left specific instructions about the delivery, or maybe he just thought that the gift would’ve been delivered in a box and not just, you know, left out in the open for everyone in the world to see what he purchased?
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He hints as much in the video, and it’s not that difficult to understand his frustration: it’s not like you get a Playstation 5 delivered to your house and the parcel service simply leaves the box on your front doorstep, unless it’s wrapped up in a different package.
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What do you think? Is this on whoever delivered the package? Or should dad have been more proactive in monitoring when the packages were coming to the house and not assumed that there was going to be a box big enough to fit the large gift that he ordered for Christmas?
Genie Wiley’s story is widely known as she was the most abused child in history. But little is known about her whereabouts — what happened to her?
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The Gist:
Genie Wiley is considered the most abused child in history.
Discovered at 13 years old, Genie became a subject of language and cognitive development studies. Despite progress, she struggled with communication and faced challenges after the study.
Post-experiment, Genie’s life took a tragic turn in foster care. Experiencing further abuse, she regressed into silence, and her current whereabouts are unknown.
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Some scientific cases might ring a bell to the average citizen — Pavlov’s dog (bell-ringing pun intended), Schrodinger’s cat, and the Stanford prison experiment are just a few of those mainstream experiments. But the story of Genie Wiley was also circulated for decades as she provided a unique opportunity for scientists.
Genie, a fake name given to protect her identity, is often considered the most abused child in history. Because of this, when she was discovered, she could barely walk, chew, or use the toilet. Most importantly, she couldn’t communicate at all. Scientists used her to study language and cognitive development, but the story doesn’t have such a happy ending. So, what happened to Genie Wiley?
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Genie Wiley was extremely abused in her childhood.
Genie was born in April 1957 in Los Angeles, Calif. to an abusive father and a mother who couldn’t defend her. Genie’s mother, Irene, suffered from cataracts, which caused near-blindness and led her to fearfully depend on her husband, Clark. He was considered an abusive psychopath. His mother died when he was younger in a hit-and-run, after which he displayed psychopathic tendencies.
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Of the four children Irene and Clark had, one died due to birth complications, one died as an infant locked in a cold garage, and the other two were Genie and her older brother, John. John was essentially Genie’s only caretaker. He fed her baby food, cereal, and milk at the instruction of his father, whom he also greatly feared. John wasn’t allowed to speak to Genie.
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During the day, Clark harnessed Genie naked to a toilet seat. If she made any sounds, he would beat her with wood. He only barked and growled at her, so Genie rarely heard anyone speak. At night, Genie was straitjacketed inside of a wire-mesh “crib” — essentially a cage.
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Genie’s existence was discovered when Irene took her outside when Clark ran out for groceries. Irene was seeking a cure for her blindness and thought she walked into a blindness disability benefits office, but she instead went to social services. The social workers immediately noticed Genie’s strange behavior — her gait mimicked that of a rabbit, she drooled, was incontinent, and looked to be about 7 years old when she was actually 13.
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Genie Wiley was “saved” by the social workers, but her whereabouts now are unknown.
At that point, Irene and Clark were arrested for child abuse, although Irene was released on account of being a victim as well. Clark took his own life at 70 years old just before he was due in court. His suicide note just said, “The world will never understand.” No, we won’t!
Genie was raised by doctors, psychologists, therapists, and more, from 1970 to 1975. She was admitted to Children’s Hospital Los Angeles, which applied for a grant to study her. Because withholding a proper childhood would be unethical, Genie’s case was a rare opportunity to study the possibilities of learning linguistics after early childhood.
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She quickly learned basic skills, like going to the toilet and dressing herself, but she was never able to excel beyond stringing two to three words together at a time. And she never grasped grammatical concepts, despite linguists’ hard work to teach her. She was fostered by researcher and psychologist David Rigler and his wife, Marilyn, until 1975. At this point, Genie was about 18 years old and the grant had been revoked.
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Genie was forced to move back in with her mother, who wasn’t able to care for her, so she went into the foster care system. This led to more abuse and Genie regressed and didn’t speak, although she was still able to communicate nonverbally. Now, however, it’s unknown where Genie is and if she’s still alive.
On her 27th and 29th birthdays, psychiatrist Jay Shurley said that Genie was “largely silent, depressed, and chronically institutionalized,” according to Very Well Mind. In 2000, a private investigator found that Genie was reportedly living in an adult care facility and was “happy.” Now, there’s no record of where she is, but if she’s still alive, she would be 66 years old.
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