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Do You Think of Your Dog as a Child or an Adult? The Debate

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When one woman referred to the family dog as her most well-behaved child, her husband had a totally different opinion of what role the dog plays.

My dog is my daughter, and every pet I’ve ever had has also been my child. Even when I myself was a kid, those sweet critters were my perfect little babies. It should be noted that I’ve never wanted children, and I continue to not want them to this day. And yet, my beautiful dog daughter is one of the best parts of my entire existence. Without her, I would crumble to the ground.

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This is why I know exactly where I stand when it comes to a question posited by Katelyn on TikTok. She views the family dog as yet another kid in need of parenting. Her husband, on the other hand, has the wildest notion I have ever heard. Truly this thought has never crossed my mind, and I have let some really unhinged ideas into my brain. Read on to see where you fall in what could be the next great internet debate.

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A dog by any name is your child.

When I’m referring to myself while chatting with my dog, which I frequently do, I say Mommy. In other words, if it’s time for my dog to go for a walk I’ll say something like, “Lorraine, wanna go out with Mommy?” It’s me. I’m never the problem.

I’m not entirely sure Katelyn, go goes by @itsme_kb on TikTok, gets this deep into the roles but she is definitely maternal when it comes to her pup. Katelyn’s husband has a different relationship with the family pet. Again, I cannot fathom feeling the way.

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“OK, this blew my mind,” said Katelyn in her TikTok. I could not agree more. “I have to know if anyone else feels this way,” she continued. Clearly I do.

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It all started when Katelyn and her husband were lying in bed together. They had just gotten their human children to hit the hay, and were snuggling with their dog. “Our dog was laying between us, as she often does,” explained Katelyn in the video. That’s correct.

Half-jokingly, Katelyn said their dog was the “best behaved of all her children,” which surprised her husband. Here’s the craziest part: His shock had nothing to do with Katelyn comparing their dog to their children. This was based on something else entirely.

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“Do you think of her as a child” asked Katelyn’s husband. “You don’t think of her as one of us?”

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My initial reaction was, does this man see their dog as a human? Because that is a bridge too far. Thankfully that wasn’t it.

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Apparently Katelyn’s husband considers their dog to be a third adult in the house while Katelyn is raising this sweet girl like she’s one of their own. Part of me understands why Katelyn’s husband feels this way. Now that he’s a dad, his brain knows there are children around so the dog defaults to a peer.

Obviously I agree with Katelyn because my dog is my daughter and I’m parenting her as I type. Unlike adults and like children, dogs depend on us for survival. If my dog was more like a roommate, I probably wouldn’t be feeding her every night. Using this logic, I can’t view my dog as anything other than a dependent.

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People in the comments were all over the place, though everyone had some sort of specific household role in mind when thinking of their pet. “We don’t have kids yet, so our dog is our baby, but I had him before we got married, so he is also my roommate from college,” said one person. I love this. That person’s dog is growing with them and maybe eats their food, even it’s labeled. Why can’t a college roommate get their own ramen?

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A lot of folks said they thought of their husbands as the children which really made me sad. I’m sure it’s a joke but all I can think about is how men sometimes weaponize incompetence so much so that you’re the only one who goes to the grocery store because they can’t find anything. They can’t find anything in the store with all the employees and the carefully marked aisles?

In a follow-up video, Katelyn addressed a comment that kept popping up. Apparently several people in the replies of her original TikTok were afraid Katelyn’s husband wasn’t taking equal care of the dog because he didn’t think of it as a child. Not only is that false, but Katelyn said her husband actually does more of the dog work. It sounds like her husband is just unwilling to admit that their dog is his child.

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Who Was RHOSLC Star Whitney Rose’s Friend, Shari?

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‘RHOSLC’s’ Whitney Rose’s friend of over two decades died in April 2023. Here’s what to know about Shari Rae Quai.

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  • Whitney Rose’s friend of over 20 years, Shari Rae Quai, died after “a long battle with cancer” at age 41.
  • Whitney discovered her friend had been intubated and passed away while filming The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City.
  • Whitney Rose and Lisa Barlow had an argument on RHOSLC Season 4 soon after Whitney found out about Shari’s death.

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Shari had a few appearances on RHOSLC, and her death came up on the show. Here’s what happened to Whitney’s friend and how she honored her legacy on her reality TV platform.

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Who was ‘RHOSLC’ star Whitney Rose’s friend, Shari Quai?

Fans may recall seeing Whitney’s friend, Shari, in a 2020 episode of RHOSLC. In a Season 1 episode, Shari attended Whitney and Justin’s vow renewal and Whitney’s 1920s-themed party that same season. During Season 4, Ep.12, “Icy Apologies,” Whitney shared in a scene that Shari, her friend from age 23, had been intubated following a battle with Stage 4 colorectal cancer.

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Shari, a certified registered nurse anesthetist, sadly died at the age of 41 on April 26, 2023. Her obituary states she kept “her spirit of celebration every day of her life and left an indelible mark” amid her cancer diagnosis. The obituary also said Shari is joined in death by her daughter, Eve Rose, who passed away in 2017 of unknown causes.

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On April 27, Whitney posted several Instagram photos and videos of her and Shari to honor her friend’s legacy. In addition to praising her friend’s dedication to her family — her husband, Josh, and living children Lily, Vienna, and McCade — Whitney expressed the grief of losing her close friend of over 20 years.

“I write this with tears in my eyes not only because I will miss you deeply, Shari, but because you added so much beauty and love to my life,” Whitney wrote of her friend under a slideshow of their moments together. “It is so rare to find a friend like you, and I am forever blessed that I did. I love you, my soul sister, in this life and beyond. I love you.”

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Whitney Rose’s friend’s death caused friction between the ‘RHOSLC’ star and Lisa Barlow.

Whitney discovered the news of her friend, Shari’s death while filming Season 4 of RHOSLC. After sharing with her husband that Shari had been intubated, she revealed on the show that both she and Shari knew her life was ending.

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“I was with her on Monday, and she couldn’t even get off the couch,” Whitney recalled on RHOSLC. “I’m worried. I think we’re losing her. When I sat with her, that’s what we talked about – how she knows death is here.”

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In another scene from the Season 4 episode, Whitney attends Meredith Marks’s launch party for her business, Plated by Meredith Marks. However, she had learned of Shari’s death shortly before the event. When she arrived at the event, Whitney noticed Lisa, who she thought was her close friend, hadn’t mentioned anything about the loss of her friend.

After noticing Lisa got Heather Gay a gift and not her, Whitney confronted Lisa at Meredith’s event. During the confrontation, Lisa admitted she didn’t know how Whitney grieved and didn’t know how to help her with losing her friend. Whitney felt the excuse wasn’t good enough, especially after she went to great lengths to ensure Lisa had supported her in the past.

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“It hurt my feelings because I reached out to you,” Whitney told Lisa.

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Although Lisa profusely apologized to Whitney about Shari’s loss, the fight caused a “hot mic” moment from Lisa, as she was heard saying, “F–k this,” after walking away from the conversation.

Catch new episodes of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City on Bravo on Tuesdays at 8 p.m. EST.

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Why Do You Have to Crush Snail Eggs?

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Why do you have to crush snail eggs? Whether you’re a snail owner or happen to find a nest, snail eggs are probably best taken care of on sight.

The Gist:

  • Snail owners often have to crush snail eggs on a regular basis.
  • Though some are reluctant to do so, many advise that the eggs should be taken care of.
  • We break down what folks have to say about destroying snail eggs.

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Not so long ago, everyone was on the spotted lanternfly killing spree. As overt pests that can disrupt ecosystems and harm crops, we as a society were pretty much tasked with keeping these bugs at bay and crushing them on sight. I, personally, have seen plenty of crushed lanternflies on the sidewalk and have gotten a couple myself as recently as Fall 2023. It might seem a bit cruel at first, but it’s more necessary than one might think.

By that same measure, people do the same thing with snail eggs. If they happen to find some or if a pet snail lays them, it’s apparently better to get rid of the lot rather than let them hatch. Here’s what folks have to say about what to do with snail eggs.

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Here’s why you should be crushing snail eggs.

Folks began discussing snail eggs after a TikTok video from @mildhippie went viral. As the self-proclaimed “snail egg crushing queen,” she has made several videos on both snail keeping and, of course, crushing snail eggs.

You might be surprised to know that she does have several snails as pets and she cares for many of them as best as possible. It’s because of this that she is an active proponent of crushing snail eggs.

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In one of her most popular videos, she offers a deep dive into the importance of crushing snail eggs as a snail keeper. She explains that snails reproduce asexually and can lay more than 800 eggs a year. Allowing them to hatch means that you could, you know, end up having to care for more than 800 snails! Taking care of 800 of anything is an impossible task for anyone, even snails and snail keepers.

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Releasing these snails in the wild is also not an option, as you may be introducing an invasive species into an ecosystem. Not only that, but many of these snails would hatch as “runts,” which are weaker snails that supposedly suffer every day because of their weakened bodies.

Given all of these troubling statistics around snail care, it’s no wonder that expert snail owners advise that snail eggs be crushed on a regular basis.

While @mildhippie loves her pet snails deeply, she also recognizes the responsibility placed on her to ensure that no one’s lives are completely overrun by snail eggs. To that end, she even offers tutorials and advice on how to crush snail eggs safely. In some cases, she even feeds the crushed eggs to her living snails, which is apparently something that snails are a fan of?

If you’ve ever thought about taking care of a snail as a pet, this is your first important lesson.

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Where Is the Cast Now? Let’s Catch Up

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Lifetime’s ‘Escaping Polygamy’ has featured several women who’ve left the notorious Kingston Clan polygamous cult — here’s what they’re up to now.

The Cast of ‘Escaping Polygamy” — Where Are They Now?
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The Gist:

  • Lifetime’s Escaping Polygamy details the struggles several women have had in leaving forced/coerced marriages during their time in the Kingston Clan religious cult.
  • Many of the women were pressured into incestuous marriages.
  • Several of them are now advocates for helping other women leave similar situations.

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The Lifetime series Escaping Polygamy follows the lives of three sisters — Andrea, Shanell, and Jessica — as they navigate life outside of the Kingston Clan (also referred to as the Latter Day Church of Christ or The Order). The show details how the women were able to extricate themselves from their former lifestyles and features them reflecting on their pasts as they work to free others from the group. So where are they now?

‘Escaping Polygamy’ — where are Andrea, Shanell, Jessica, and the rest of the cast now?

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The Cast of ‘Escaping Polygamy” — Where Are They Now?
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Amanda Rae Grant, who was featured on ‘Escaping Polygamy’ uploads a selfie she used in promoting a video post about the cult she left as a teen.

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Andrea Brewer

Upon leaving the Kingston Clan, Andrea studied law at the University of Washington and is an attorney who is dedicated to helping other women leave the lifestyle that she herself was able to free herself from. She continues to dedicate her efforts to running Hope After Polygamy and is an active advocate for women who are in the same situation she was once mired in.

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Jessica Christensen

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Shanell Snow

While Shanell’s Instagram is currently set to private, she says that she is “happily married” and is a “proud mom” after leaving a marriage to one of her “verbally and physically abusive” first cousins she was coerced into having at just 18 years of age. She’s featured several interviews with her brother online, and like Jessica and Andrea, also advocates for Hope After Polygamy. She continues to spread awareness on child marriages in America on X.

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Kollene Snow

Featured in six episodes of Escaping Polygamy toward the end of the show’s run, Kollene got married to her second cousin at just 16 years of age and when her husband said he wanted more wives, she tried to get him to leave the religion with her. He declined, but she went on her way to become a successful makeup artist while advocating for other women to leave The Order and religious groups like it.

In a recent post she listed that she’s teaching Yoga at a local gym, and she shows off various modeling looks on her social media as well.

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Ava/Michelle

Distractify has previously covered Ava’s difficult road to emancipation — the young woman made her decision to leave her family at just 17 years of age. A bright student who was years ahead of her peers, Ava was being pressured from just 8 years old to marry her cousin. Hope After Polygamy helped in extricating her from her situation, and shortly after being emancipated she earned her associate’s degree at just 18 years old.

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Amanda Rae Grant

Amanda recently went in depth about her experiences with The Order and how she was able to free herself from the group when she was just a teenager. Now she’s currently involved in a massive lawsuit along with other women accusing members of the church for forcing them and others into marriages. The suit “also alleges the children are forced to work unpaid for Order-owned businesses, which it claims violates child labor laws,” as Wonderwall reports.

She posts regularly about her struggles in leaving the cult and has dedicated her life to advocating for other women to escape.

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