Somehow and some way we’ve all grown up with the common belief that by age 30 we’re supposed to be married with kids and all that fun stuff. And while there is no official rule book laying this out, our relatives for some reason never cease to remind us.
As such, when you’re 30 and you haven’t said “I do” or started a family, there can be some judgment. And that judgment can really get to people. Take it from this TikToker who got emotional about being 30, single, and childless.
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But not everyone is upset with their circumstances. One woman who is 29 and almost 30 took to TikTok to share that she is happy with her life sans a husband and children.
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And of course, it started a debate on Twitter, where things quickly got ugly.
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A 29-year-old single and childless woman shares how she spends her Saturdays, and she has no regrets.
“I didn’t rise from my bed until 10:15 a.m.,” says Julia Mazur, host of the Pretty Much Done podcast, in a TikTok video.
The almost-30-year-old, who currently works at Spotify, explained that it was a Saturday morning and she felt obligated to get up and do something, but realized she didn’t have any responsibilities to tend to.
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She further explained that she saw Beyoncé in concert the night before and got home at 1 a.m. and was hungover, which is why she stayed in bed a little longer than usual.
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“I was just scrolling on my phone and saw a picture of shakshuka,” she continued, adding that her plans for the day would consist of learning to make the specialty dish.
Also on her schedule was watching reruns of shows like The Real Housewives of New York and Normal People on Hulu.
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Julia ended her video on this:
“Anyway, I say all this say whenever I’m hard on myself about why I’m not married and I don’t have kids and I should be further along at 29 almost 30, I wouldn’t want to do anything else this Saturday.”
She explained that she knew someone with a family could still partake in these activities on a Saturday, but it was the “effortlessness and ease of my life” that she really cherished.
Matt Walsh weighs in the woman’s video and things start to get ugly.
While Julia turned off the comments on her TikTok video, right-wing political commentator Matt Walsh couldn’t help but start a discussion about it on Twitter.
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Her life doesn’t revolve around her family and kids so instead it revolves around TV shows and pop stars. Worst of all she’s too stupid to realize how depressing this is.
“Her life doesn’t revolve around her family and kids so instead it revolves around TV shows and pop stars. Worst of all she’s too stupid to realize how depressing this is,” he wrote alongside a downloaded version of her video.
In another tweet, Matt added: “If you don’t have a family at least do something interesting with your time. These people have absurd amounts of free time and they do absolutely nothing with it. Wasting their lives staring at little glowing boxes. Absolutely soul crushing.”
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Many of Matt’s followers seemingly agreed with him. So much so, that they decided to share their two cents with Julia. And they did not hold back.
In a follow-up video, Julia claimed she received messages from Matt’s fanbase that called her “pathetic,” wished death upon her, and told her she deserved to be sexually assaulted.
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However, many people came to Julia’s defense. In response to Matt, one Twitter user wrote: “It’s cool to have an opinion, but to berate somebody for living a life that’s different from yours is pathetic and a sheer projection of your own insecurities.”
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While Julia had a strong opinion, she didn’t say anything to put married people with children down. However, Matt was unable to share his opinion without hurting Julia. That’s what really is “depressing” here.
Izzy shows Stacy his lost and found in his apartment on ‘Love Is Blind’ and it shows how many different women have been to his place over the years.
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The Gist:
Izzy and Stacy get engaged in Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
When Stacy visits Izzy’s apartment, she has some serious concerns about the way he lives.
Izzy has a drawer full of items from other women he has slept with over the years, called his “lost and found.”
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Spoiler warning: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
Some of Love Is Blind‘s contestants might think the worst is over when they leave the pods, meet their respective fiancés face-to-face, and begin the next part of their journeys. But that’s where the drama really gets started and Izzy and Stacy prove that in Season 5. Especially when Izzy shows Stacy his apartment for the first time and introduces her to his “lost and found.”
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It’s a drawer full of things that past hook-ups left behind in his home. Izzy does little to hide this part of his apartment. In fact, he is open about it to a fault and Stacy is not happy about the idea of her husband-to-be having such a crass way of describing and organizing other women’s belongings. Can you really blame her?
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Izzy actually has a lost and found in his apartment on ‘Love Is Blind.’
Izzy explains that he keeps earrings and other small items that women have left in his apartment in a drawer in the bathroom. It doesn’t look like the drawer is spilling over with items, but still. The fact that he has a lost and found for that sort of thing and calls it that is a major red flag for Stacy. She says as much and it’s clear that this is part of Izzy’s life that gives her the ick.
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It’s safe to say that the part of Izzy’s life that involves bringing women home for one night stands is over. However, Stacy just can’t fathom why he wouldn’t throw out these lost and found items before he left home to film in the Love Is Blind pods. It’s a fair question.
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‘Love Is Blind’ fans don’t see Izzy and Stacy working out.
The fact that Stacy is majorly turned off by Izzy’s lost and found on Love Is Blind just adds to the handful of reasons why some fans don’t see this pair working out long-term. One viewer tweeted that both Stacy and Izzy are “emotionally unavailable.” Another wrote that they don’t think Stacy is even ready to get engaged, let alone married.
And now that Stacy is seeing some red (or, at the very least, a mix of red and green) flags in Izzy, those fans could be right. Stacy has yet to say “I love you,” and she appears to be concerned about Izzy’s finances. Now, we have this side of him that no one expected. There’s just a lot going on and they haven’t even picked out wedding flowers yet.
Milton from ‘Love Is Blind’ may be young, but he’s dedicated to his career. He has several degrees to his name and is currently getting his MBA.
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The Gist:
Milton’s career as an engineer on Love Is Blind is really important to him.
He and his fianceé Lydia, who is a geologist, geeked out in the pods over their similar fields.
Milton graduated from college already making a six-figure salary, but recently decided to go back to school.
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Spoiler alert: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
When contestants on Love Is Blind start talking in the pods, it’s likely that one of the first questions that comes up is “What do you do for a living?” While it’s not often that contestants will bond over their jobs, Milton and Lydia from Season 5 really seemed to hit it off when it came to talking about their respective fields. While Lydia confirmed she is a geologist, what does Milton do for work? Here’s what we know.
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Milton (right) is seen here talking with ‘Love Is Blind’ contestant Chris Fox
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Milton was making a six-figure salary while filming ‘Love Is Blind,’ but has since went back to school.
Milton entered Love Is Blind at the age of 24. While he may have acted his age at times, he is actually very serious about his education and career.
Milton graduated from Quest Early College High School in 2016 and earned an associate’s degree in mathematics from Lone Star College the same year, per LinkedIn.
He then attended the University of Houston from 2016 to 2019, where he majored in petroleum and geotechnology. Milton then went on to get a master’s degree from the University of Texas at El Paso in 2020. In 2023, Milton also started pursuing an MBA at Rice University, which he expects to complete in 2025.
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At the time of filming Love Is Blind, Milton worked as a senior pipeline control center operator at EverLine. And as his roommate Josh confirmed in Episode 6, he was making a six-figure salary at the time.
But in Nov. 2022, Milton actually switched jobs. He now works as a management trainee at Vopak while also studying at Rice. It’s unclear if he is trying to pivot to a different career as he is pursuing his MBA, but his role at Vopak still falls within the oil and energy wheelhouse.
Clearly, he has a bright future ahead of him and appears to be serious about finding a partner who shares his values and goals. This may be why he decided to set his eyes on Lydia.
Milton from ‘Love Is Blind’ says he is nationally ranked in Pokémon Showdown, but his ELO ratings beg to differ. Is he really as good as he says?
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The Gist:
Milton is a contestant on Love Is Blind Season 5.
While he is in the pods, he connects with and proposes to Lydia.
He tells her that he plays Pokémon Showdown competitively and is nationally ranked, but a closer look at what appears to be his account suggests otherwise.
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Spoiler alert: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
One castmate from Season 5 of Love Is Blind who we can’t stop thinking about is Milton (real name James Milton Johnson IV).
Born in Honolulu Hawaii, but currently based in Houston, Texas, Milton entered the experiment when he was 24. He also entered the experiment while he was still allegedly in a relationship with another woman, but that’s a whole other story.
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Throughout his time on the show, we, as well as his fianceé Lydia Velez-Gonzalez have learned a lot about Milton. He’s an engineer, he’s had his fair share of medical issues, and he loves rocks. He also is really bad at identifying what a cooler is.
Milton also loves Pokémon. In fact, he claims he’s nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown. But is that true?
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Milton says he is nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown, but we’re unable to find those stats.
In Episode 6, Milton takes Lydia back to his place where we meet his roommate Josh. Josh quickly brings up to Lydia that Milton is a Pokémon lover. He then adds, “You should see us on Pokémon Showdown.”
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Milton, clearly trying to impress his geology-loving woman, says to Josh “Hey, remember I told you we’re like nationally ranked? We’re both up there in national ranking.”
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Josh then tells Lydia that her man is actually banned in five countries on Pokémon Showdown, including U.S. servers. When Lydia asks why, Milton responds “you talk too much s–t, you get banned.” Yikes!
As for Milton being nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown, we’re unable to find that information.
Assuming that Milton’s username is jamesmiltonj4 on Pokémon Showdown — which is the username he uses on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter — then he’s not actually the star player he made himself out to be. These are the stats we pulled up for user jamesmiltonj4, who has been a member since July 2017.
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Per Smogon.com, ELO ratings start at 1000. And if you take a gander at Milton’s ELO ratings, his highest one is 1223. He is only rated just a little bit higher than the default rating. Most players don’t consider anything under 1600 isn’t a good ELO rating.
If Milton was nationally ranked, his ELO rating would likely be over 2000.
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That said, he may have performed better under a different username or peaked at a different time. But judging from these stats, we’re not too impressed with user jamesmiltonj4, if that does happen to be Milton’s account.
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