Manhattan singles, protect your hearts and your shoes. This captivating NYC Tinder horror story involves a man now known as the “Tabi Swiper.”
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When it comes to dating in NYC, not much has changed since Carrie Bradshaw deemed the city that never sleeps her boyfriend, sick and tired of the roller coaster ride that is dating Manhattan men. Sure, the Sex and the Cityprotagonist’s long list of sexcapades, love affairs, and heartbreaks occurred during a time devoid of social media and dating apps (let’s disregard Max’s reboot series And Just Like That…), but it’s still rough out there in 2023. In fact, it may be worse.
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A particularly comical, SATC-coded dating nightmare plagued a fashion-forward Manhattan-based woman in September 2023, and she documented her distressing tale on TikTok. It involves a handsome, stylish Tinder fellow, drinks, a casual hookup, and Maison Margiela Tabis. Said man has been nicknamed the “Tabi Swiper.” Hold onto your priciest pair of shoes, and let’s get into it.
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Who is the NYC Tabi Swiper? Inside the viral shoe thievery scandal.
The mysterious “Tabi Swiper” did just that: He swiped his date’s $990 Maison Margiela Mary Jane Tabis. Carrie Bradshaw is also a shoe-napping victim — her precious Manolo Blahniks, twice — but the culprits weren’t ever her suitors.
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TikTok user, city dweller, and knitwear crafter @nextlevellexuss began her viral video with a PSA: “Ladies of NYC, [beware]: This man is out here on Tinder and Hinge and he will steal from you.” Lex goes on to relay that this man — whose Tinder profile is plastered as the background of the video — didn’t just steal any pair of Mary Jane Tabis; he stole a sentimental birthday gift from her father.
It all began with a look. The then-strangers passed each other on the streets of Soho, locking eyes, as two attractive singles do. Later that evening, Lex was surprised to receive a Tinder message from a 23-year-old man named Joshua — the cute guy she’d made goo-goo eyes at hours prior. One thing led to another and Lex and Joshua were heading out for drinks and flirty conversation.
“He seems like a nice guy and like someone I would probably just hang out with for, like, a little fling and just, like, sleep with,” she explains. Keeping it casual.
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For Date No. 2, Lex invited Joshua to her apartment, where the two chatted about their mutual love for fashion. Joshua told Lex about how badly he wanted a pair of the polarizing split-toe shoes — specifically the Tabi Ankle Boots. Naturally, Lex pointed to her own shoe collection, which includes two pairs of Tabis (boots and Mary Janes).
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Cut to the morning after, Lex couldn’t wait to send Joshua on his way. But before he embarked on his “walk of shame,” so to speak, Joshua insisted on introducing Lex to a killer Spotify playlist. Conveniently, Joshua didn’t have the music service app on his phone, prompting Lex to hand over her unlocked phone. After some fumbling, he admitted defeat and returned Lex’s phone, as he “couldn’t find” the playlist.
“Hours pass, I’m on my computer, I look over to my shoe rack,” she explains, pointing to the tower in the corner of the room. “He barely glanced at the Mary Janes, OK? I look over there, and they’re gone.”
Lex didn’t want to jump to conclusions or “be accusatory,” so she tore her apartment apart looking for the luxury footwear before attempting to contact Joshua.
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Lex’s strategic mission to retrieve her Tabis involved a hefty team of internet detectives.
“I go to Tinder to message him — unmatched, gone! I’m like, ‘Oh no, this b—- stole my f—— shoes,’” she explains. Not only did he remove Lex from his list of Tinder matches, but she believes Joshua deleted his own contact from her phone.
Lex didn’t take her somber tale of stolen Tabis to TikTok to expose or “cancel” this shady dude; she needed help, and she knew the internet sleuths would have her back.
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As of this writing, her story-time video has been played nearly a million times — and that’s just on TikTok. The saga also made its way to Twitter, spawning memes and jokes about NYC dating and men in the fashion space. One TikTok user commented on Lex’s video, declaring that “fashion guys are sinister.”
In the end, Lex’s plan worked, as online detectives helped her track down Joshua’s (if that’s even his real name) Instagram account. But knowing Lex was on his tail, Joshua made his page private. Sigh. Still determined to get back her swiped Tabis, Lex reached out to several people, including Joshua’s sister.
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“He finally calls me two hours later, after he privated his account, and starts to gaslight me and tell me that he didn’t steal them and he doesn’t know how it happened,” Lex says in an update TikTok. “He’s like ‘That’s just out of my character, I would never do that.’”
In an objectively strange move, Joshua offered Lex money for new Tabis, all while maintaining that he didn’t snatch her original ones. Hmm.
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“The plot thickens. I find out he has a girlfriend and he gave my Tabis to his girlfriend,” Lex continues.
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After she sent Joshua a screenshot of his supposed boo wearing her Tabis in a mirror selfie, Lex received the text she’d been waiting for: “Ight, you got me, I’ll get them back to you. Give me a time and place.” The bizarre text also requested that Lex take down her TikTok. As of this writing, all of Lex’s Tabi-centered videos remain on her TikTok account. Good for her!
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Just like Carrie and her silver Manolos in SATC Season 6, Episode 9, “A Woman’s Right to Shoes,”Lex got her Mary Jane Tabis back. The Tabi Swiper “thought [he] could get away with it” and clearly underestimated the strength, tenacity, and resourcefulness of a shoe-obsessed woman.
A massive test of the emergency broadcasting system is planned for October 4, so prepare yourself to deal with some blaring noises.
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The Gist:
There will be a nationwide test of the emergency alert system on October 4.
The alert will be broadcast to all TVs, radios, and cell phones across the country, and will be accompanied by a message alerting users that this is just a test.
The test is designed to ensure that a real alert can be sent in the event of a national emergency.
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Anyone who is connected to the world and has a TV or phone is likely aware of the emergency broadcasting system. The system is designed to warn you about regional or national emergencies that could range from a major storm to some other dangerous situation. The system is supposed to make sure that people can get to safety, but in order to ensure the system works, sometimes, a test is required.
People online are nervous following rumors that a test will take place on October 4, which has led many to wonder what exactly that day will bring, and whether they’ll be ready for it.
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What is happening on October 4?
On October 4, there will be a massive, coordinated test of the emergency alert system across TVs, radios, and cell phones. The test is set to occur at 2:20 pm ET, and should be accompanied by a somewhat jarring, electronic noise that is designed to bring you to alert.
The noise will be accompanied by a message that should be familiar to anyone who has heard or read these types of alerts before.
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“This is a nationwide test of the Emergency Alert System, issued by the Federal Emergency Management Agency, covering the United States from 14:20 to 14:50 hours ET. This is only a test. No action is required by the public,” the message will say.
This test is happening to ensure that the system is ready in the event of a real widespread national emergency or attack.
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These kinds of tests are particularly important in the aftermath of events like the wildfires in Maui, when it was determined that the emergency sirens did not sound properly, causing more destruction and devastation than the fires might have led to otherwise.
The exact wording of the test has not been released yet, but on cell phones, it will come as a text message badge that reads: “THIS IS A TEST of the National Wireless Emergency Alert System. No action is needed.”
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The message will also be delivered in Spanish to phones where the main menu is also in Spanish.
“ESTA ES UNA PRUEBA del Sistema Nacional de Alerta de Emergencia. No se necesita acción,” will be the message in Spanish.
The test is only set to last for a single minute, and there aren’t supposed to be any repeats of the warning after that first alarm sounds.
The test will mean that there will be a temporary blackout of all devices in the US, and while that news is alarming to some because it will be an interruption, it’s easy to see why the system needs to be tested regularly to ensure that we’re ready for a serious emergency.
The body positivity movement has long focused on fat people, when it should really represent people of all different shapes, sizes, and ethnicities.
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The Gist:
Body shaming has wreaked havoc on folks of all shapes, sizes, and ethnicities over the years.
The body positivity movement has tended to focus on people of larger sizes and many voices aren’t heard.
The movement should be inclusive and support people of all sizes and ethnicities.
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It’s no secret that the emergence of social media has played a role in how detrimental body shaming can be. In the early 2000s, sites like Facebook and Twitter — birthed in 2004 and 2006, respectively — showed how easy it is for folks to create anonymous identities and wreak havoc on folks of all shapes, sizes, and ethnicities. While we all know that no one is safe from being body shamed, there has always been a focus on how fat people are affected.
Truth be told, if we look at most of the leaders and voices in the body positivity movement, many of these people are of larger sizes. While it’s great to see these people speak up for themselves and individuals who look like them, it has caused the body positivity movement to feel like a skinny, white woman’s mission, as opposed to an inclusive one. It’s time to wake up and smell the coffee.
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Body positivity describes inclusion, but Black women of varying sizes have been left out of the conversation.
If you take a scroll through social media — from Instagram to TikTok — body positivity content typically has a white face. Although there are plenty of Black women who champion the movement, their voices are often unheard.
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Of course, there are some women, from the likes of Lizzo to influencer Simone Mariposa, who use their platforms to make their voices heard. However, I’d be remiss not to address that Black women of smaller sizes tend to be MIA as far as the topic is concerned.
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By description, body positivity is understood to be a social movement that champions the respect of all bodies — skinny to fat — being deemed acceptable despite societal standards that say otherwise. With that in mind, there is no reason why smaller-sized Black women are not part of the conversation on a larger scale.
So many women who fit this demographic have often been open about their struggles with body image over the years, including rapper Coi Leray. Ever since the femcee stepped on the scene, she has had to deal with harsh criticisms about her small frame.
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“I’ve dealt with the body shaming situation, honestly, my whole career,” Coi says to Eddie Francis for Apple Music 1’s The Plug Radio. Shout out to all the slim women out there. I feel like I actually paved the way in the music industry for a slim woman to just finally be accepted, honestly, after a very long time.”
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Truth be told, Coi’s plight with body shaming is known due to her celebrity status, but there are everyday women like Coi who deal with the same struggle that’s overlooked regarding the promotion of the body positivity movement.
Will the body positivity movement continue to highlight full-figured people?
Truth be told, only time will tell. However, it’s important to reiterate that bodies come in various shapes and sizes. And while folks who consider themselves full-figured often deal with discrimination and harsh criticism, it’s a similar experience for folks on the other side and in between.
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Social media has shined a light on the fact that a woman can have what many consider to be a desirable body and still be ridiculed. For example, Megan Thee Stallion often receives hate for being a tall woman with small hips, Lizzo is consistently dragged for being fat, Coi is criticized for not opting for a BBL or breast implants, and Nicki Minaj is body-shamed for gaining a few pounds. The list goes on.
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With that in mind, it’s time for folks in the body positivity space to come together to praise all bodies. As the saying goes, I am my sister’s keeper. It’s time to uplift and celebrate each other for our differences and the beauty in it.
A Target Employee’s now viral TikTok shows off a “secret” room that sports two-way mirrors which are presumably used to spy on customers, but are they?
Source: TikTok | @santi._s
You should always assume that while you’re shopping at a major retailer that you’re being watched. Heck, even local businesses have security cameras installed in their establishments, which has helped them catch thieves.
But major retailers spend a lot of money on loss prevention every single year. Take Walmart for example the global chain recently plopped down over half a billion dollars to ensure that folks aren’t burgling from its stores.
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Granted, a lot of the loss prevention solutions aren’t as complex as the Sam Walton established brand, which incorporates a series of A.I. cameras and weighted self-service checkout stations. And of course, there are camera systems manned by folks who are paid to ensure that big-ticket items aren’t being lifted out of the respective locations where they work.
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Apparently, some of these loss prevention set-ups are a bit more involved than others, like this “amphitheater” of sorts that a TikToker showed off in a now-viral clip at a Target location that gives whoever is in the room a Skybox view of the entire store so they not only presumably have live video monitoring feeds of the location, but an actual grand view of the retailer’s layout.
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Source: TikTok | @santi._s
Santi, who posts under the handle @santi._s gave viewers a sneak peek into what many are speculating is a part of Target’s loss prevention process, after spilling the beans on the suspicious look elevated mirrors that can be found in some locations.
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Source: TikTok | @santi._s
At the onset of the now-viral clip, she shows the mirrors and then we see her head through some doors in the back of the store. Through this pathway, Santi ends up at a stairwell, which she traverses to ultimately end up directly behind the mirrors.
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As it turns out, they’re the kind of mirrors you’d recognize from any police movie interrogation scene. The two-way glass allows whoever’s inside the box to covertly snoop on anyone who is ambling about the store while all we see are our own mugs staring back at us.
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A text overly on the clip simply reads: “If you see mirrors like this in a Target they are watching you” along with a caption, “They really do be watching us from above.”
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It’s worth mentioning, however, that there actually weren’t any employees manning the “spy station” while Santi was recording, so the room may only be in use during high-volume shopping times or when a specific situation needs to be monitored by staff.
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Source: TikTok | @santi._s
And while the prevailing belief is that the rooms are being used to watch potential shoplifters, or to spy on employees in the store to make sure that they’re doing their jobs, there were many who thought that since there was no one up there during the time of Santi’s filming, that those particular spaces are just offices that aren’t in use anymore.
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Source: TikTok | @santi._s
Instead of knocking them all down, the construction team responsible for putting the Target together opted to just put up some mirrors in an attempt to try and make things more aesthetically pleasing. However, why would there be two-way mirrors, and not just some key art showing the Target dog or other imagery/promotional materials for the store?
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Other people chimed in and said these are simply offices for the store’s managers, and the reason why they’re empty is that they’re probably on the floor assisting customers or other members of the location’s team.
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Source: TikTok | @santi._s
According to folks in the comments section, they’ve said that other retailers, like CVS and supermarkets do the same thing. The two-way mirrors are there for visibility, but also offer some privacy for employees who are on break.
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