While on vacation, a man had the audacity to tell his wife to hide her menstrual pads because they could make his friend uncomfortable.
There’s so much shame and stigma around menstruation, a regular and natural process. According to research by The New York Post, 58 percent of women across the country have experienced period shaming — and sadly, that includes this one woman in the popular “Am I the A——” (AITA) subreddit
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The original poster, who goes by the handle u/Superb_Tension6793, said her husband told her to hide her menstrual pads because it’s “inappropriate” and could make his friends “uncomfortable.” OK, loser!
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Read on for more details. Plus, stick around to hear what the internet has to say.
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This husband told his wife it was “inappropriate” for her to leave menstrual pads in a visible place.
At the time of her post, the OP revealed she was on vacation with her husband and his friend. They were all sharing a rented apartment with just one bathroom, and eventually, the OP got her period. She bought some pads and left them on the bathroom counter in a “semi-sheer bag.”
The OP said the pads weren’t visible, but her husband thought otherwise. He told her it was totally “inappropriate,” adding that his friend could be “uncomfortable” knowing that someone in the apartment was bleeding. OK, how is this not a joke?! Seriously, grow up — menstruation is normal!
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Thankfully, the OP put up a fight. She argued that menstruation is a “natural process” and shouldn’t be deemed “gross or dirty.” Preach it, girl! Please say it much louder for the people in the back!
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“Women shouldn’t be shamed or stigmatized because of it, as this has historically caused women to suffer,” she wrote, noting that her husband didn’t have anything else to say after she clapped back.
But she wondered: “Am I the A——?” Keep scrolling to find out what Reddit has to say about the situation.
Reddit agreed that the OP’s husband is incredibly immature.
Unsurprisingly, many Redditors stood by the OP’s side and agreed that her husband was the wrongdoer.
One user said, “Anyone living with a menstruating woman should accept the fact that, yes, in fact, sometimes you will be on your period and have menstrual products within reach.”
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“For real. NTA. A 30-year-old man should be able to see feminine products without batting an eye,” a second Redditor agreed. “Nearly every guy grew up with a mom. She bled. That’s life. I have a 13-year-old son and couldn’t imagine him freaking out over seeing my wife’s or his sister’s pads/tampons.”
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Another person wrote, “Do we care if there are men out there who are made uncomfortable by menstrual products? No, we do not. Do we care if men are made uncomfortable by the sight of women breastfeeding their babies? No, we do not. Do we care if misogynists are creeped out by normal female activities? No, we do not.”
“NTA — You’re not smacking a used pad across his friend’s forehead,” a fourth Redditor commented. “Menstruation is normal. Freaking out over sealed unused pads on a bathroom counter is not normal.”
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At some point, the OP edited her post and asked men to weigh in on the situation because her misogynistic husband wasn’t happy. He even told her that all the comments were from women, which is why she was voted NTA.
One person took to the comment section to share their dad’s perfect response: “If the man can’t handle seeing a pad or tampon then he should remain celibate until he grows the f— up.”
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“Your hubby needs to grow the f— up,” another man penned. “Menstruation is normal, natural, and we work hard to make sure our daughter understands that. No one needs your hubby’s overwrought and outdated attitude.”
A third guy addressed the OP’s husband, stating, “If you’re that, I don’t even know the word. Sensitive? Pathetic?… that you can’t handle seeing a normal sanitary product, you’re really not ready to be in a normal human relationship.”
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And there you have it! The OP’s husband has some serious growing up to do.
Livestreamer Johnny Somali was arrested in Japan after inciting controversy in the country for several months. He may face deportation.
The Gist:
Johnny Somali was arrested in Osaka, Japan.
The controversial livestreamer had been harassing Japanese citizens with racist remarks for months.
Folks on social media hope he gets deported back to the United States.
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Livestreamers and controversy seem to go hand in hand, but few have reached the level of infamy that Johnny Somali has in his career. According to Know Your Meme, he first established his online presence on YouTube back in 2011. He would later expand to channels like Twitch and Kick. As for his content, he mostly focused on traveling to Asian countries like Japan and Thailand. In 2023, however, he would come under fire for his inflammatory remarks while in Japan.
Starting in mid-May 2023, Johnny began trending on social media after he livestreamed himself harassing Japanese citizens with racist remarks. The backlash to his content became so severe that he even started getting attacked on the street by angry locals. Now, in a stroke of karmic comeuppance, Johnny Somali was arrested in Osaka. Here’s what happened and the kind of charge he faces.
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Johnny Somali was arrested in Japan after months of controversial livestreams.
Ever since arriving on an extended stay in Japan, Ramsey Khalid Ismael aka Johnny Somali began livestreaming himself as he threw out racist remarks against unsuspecting Japanese citizens in public. Much of his rhetoric included references to Hiroshima, Nagasaki, and Pearl Harbor. As his comments intensified, so too did the response from Japanese citizens. On multiple occasions, Johnny was physically assaulted during his streams by Japanese people who were increasingly fed up with his antics.
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After months of activity, he may have finally gotten what was coming to him. In late September 2023, Johnny Somali was arrested for trespassing at a construction site in Osaka while livestreaming.
According to a report by The Asahi Shimbun, he had broken into the area and harassed construction workers as they requested that he leave. Footage of the arrest was even captured during his broadcast, wherein Johnny attempts to start the “FreeSomali” hashtag. Jeremiah Dwane Branch was also arrested as an accomplice.
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Folks on the internet are calling for Johnny Somali’s deportation following his Twitch ban.
As of this writing, details of the charges have yet to be disclosed. However, people across the internet are already calling for Johnny Somali and his accomplices to be deported back to the United States. In the comments section of a Japan Todayarticle, one user wrote, “He should spend [a full sentence] and then be deported and blacklisted and sent back to the US where he can take his lack of skills and register for unemployment.”
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Many argue that his trespassing could be grounds for deportation, but his overall content of hate against the Japanese could also very well work against him.
Online calls for his deportation come mere months after Japanese Twitch streamer Meowko called for him to be banned from his online platforms. He was already previously banned on Twitch for his behavior but has remained active on Kick.
In May 2023, Meowko was openly harassed by Johnny during her own broadcast while he was still banned from Twitch. According to Twitch guidelines, Meowko could have faced a potential ban of her own by featuring a banned Twitch member on her stream, even though he intruded on her stream without her consent. The exchange reportedly left Meowko in tears as she called for Johnny to lose the rest of his platforms.
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Keep reading Distractify for more on this story as it develops.
Rapper Krayzie Bone is in the hospital with what appears to be a very serious condition, leading many to wonder what happened to the musician.
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The Gist:
Rapper Krayzie Bone, whose real name is Anthony Henderson, a member of Bone Thugs-n-Harmony, checked himself into the hospital on Sunday, Sept. 24.
Reports suggest he has been diagnosed with sarcoidosis, and that a recent surgery to correct bleeding into his lung failed.
He is currently in a medically induced coma and is receiving assistance breathing. It’s unclear when or if he will recover.
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One of the members of Bone Thugs-n-Harmony is reportedly in very serious condition. News recently broke that Krayzie Bone, whose real name is Anthony Henderson, was in the hospital. Following the news, many wanted to learn more about Anthony’s condition and what happened that led him to be in the hospital.
Thankfully, we’ve got everything you need to know about what happened to Anthony, and what his prognosis is now that he’s in the hospital.
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What happened to Krayzie Bone?
Anthony is in the hospital because he suffers from an autoimmune condition known as sarcoidosis. The disease is inflammatory and causes the immune system to overreact to perceived threats, leading to pockets of inflamed tissue called granulomas.
Reports suggest that Anthony had a CAT scan that revealed one of his arteries was leaking into his lung, but surgery designed to stop the problem was not a success.
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Now, reports suggest that Anthony is on a breathing machine and has been sedated.
This serious condition is genuinely worrisome, and it’s unclear when or if Anthony will ever wake up from his medically induced coma. As a result of his severe condition, many celebrities and others who knew Anthony well or were even just big fans have offered their thoughts and prayers following the news that he was hospitalized.
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Everyone from fellow rappers to LeBron James are offering thoughts about Krayzie Bone.
“Prayers to Krayzie, man!” LeBron James wrote in a post on Twitter.
DJ Paul, an accomplished musician in his own right, added an even lengthier statement. “Please pray for my brother Kray. We was just in the lab Wednesday recording, having fun, drinking his new IPA. This is unbelievable,” he wrote.
There are clearly many people invested in Anthony’s recovery, however long it may take.
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The rapper, who is now 50, first formed Bone Thugs-N-Harmony in 1991 in Cleveland, Ohio. Krayzie is one of five members of the group, which also includes Bizzy Bone, Flesh-N-Bone, Wish Bone and Layzie Bone.
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The group has earned its reputation as one of the biggest names in hip hop, and worked with everyone from Tupac to Biggie over the course of their long career in the world of music.
Now, the group’s other members are worried about their friend, and hoping he can pull through following this hospitalization. Sarcoidosis is a serious illness, and it’s one that is difficult to treat because it is a disease of the autoimmune system. The coming days will be crucial in understanding where Anthony’s condition ultimately goes from here, and whether he’s able to make a recovery or not.
The legal teams for Abigail Elphick and Ijeoma Ukenta, have said the “Victoria’s Secret” Karen viral video wasn’t about race, as previously assumed.
Just the Gist:
Abigail Elphick and Ijeoma Ukenta were involved in a viral TikTok that gave Abigail the nickname “Victoria’s Secret Karen”
Abigail’s legal team states she suffers from multiple mental and physical health conditions.
Ijeoma sued Abigail and Victoria’s Secret in 2023 for reportedly being “extremely dismissive” during the ordeal.
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Since 2020, the term “Karen” has been a social stigma on white women in U.S. society. The term spawned a meme and a character trait, as cases viral videos of white women threatening to call the police and other authorities on strangers who were notably Black or other people of color began emerging on TikTok and other platforms.
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In July 2021, Abigail Elphick, a then-25-year-old white woman living in Milburn, N.J., found herself labeled as the “Victoria’s Secret Karen” after chasing a Black woman named Ijeoma Ukenta for recording her behavior in the famed lingerie store.
Two years after their “Victoria’s Secret Karen,” incident went viral, Abigail and Ijeoma filed lawsuits against one another, with Abigail stating the public mislabeled her and her intentions on that fateful day.
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Here’s everything to know about the Victoria’s Secret Karen lawsuit.
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Legal filings revealed “Victoria’s Secret Karen” Abigail Elphick has a “long history of medical and psychological conditions.”
By now, millions of social media users have seen Abigail and Ijeoma’s viral TikTok exchange (and if you haven’t keep scrolling!), which involved Abigail hysterically crying as she begs Ijeoma “please don’t record me” and chasing Ijeoma around the store. In September 2023, Abigail and her legal team shared that the truth behind the video is vastly different than what viewers were led to believe.
According to The New York Times (viaYahoo), legal filings show that Abigail, who was quickly labeled Victoria’s Secret Karen on TikTok and other social platforms, was “disabled, with a long history of medical and psychological conditions” when she entered the Victoria’s Secret store.
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Abigail’s team argues that her conditions prompted her “mental health breakdown” and that her behavior at Victoria’s secret wasn’t “race-based.” They stated Abigail was upset because she feared she would lose her job and her apartment, as she lives in a residence for those with developmental and intellectual disabilities.
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The latter reportedly happened, as court records show Abigail received a call from a stranger threatening to rape and kill her, and other online users demanding she lose her internship as a local school district. The call prompted Tom Toronto, president of Bergen County’s United Way, the company that runs Abigail’s residence, to speak out in her defense.
“She has a disorder. She has anxiety,” he explained to The Times. “She had a meltdown. Then the world we live in took over, and it became something entirely different than what it actually was.”
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Ijeoma Ukenta filed a lawsuit in July 2023 against Abigail and Victoria’s Secret.
Abigail’s September 2023 comments were in response to Ijeoma’s July 2023 lawsuit against Abigail and Victoria’s Secret.
On July 6, Ijeoma, a content creator, sued Abigail, Victoria’s Secret, and the store’s security guards. Ijeoma stated in her complaint that the store’s security “were extremely dismissive toward her,” and were “indifferent and nonchalant about her concerns for her safety.”
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Amid Ijeoma’s filing, Abigail’s counterclaim accused Ijeoma of “harassment” for discussing her and Abigail’s altercation online.
Since the “Victoria’s Secret Karen” video went viral, Ijeoma has received flack for profiting off the incident.
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Ijeoma’s GoFundMe and additional content surrounding her initial video caused many people following the story to raise their eyebrows. Several users, including Kasko Xero Vlogs stated she was using the incident for fame and money. In Abigail’s complaint, her lawyers accused her of making “a job out of preying on individuals from behind a keyboard,” and “inciting hate” online.
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Ijeoma and her lawyer, Tracey Hinson, have defended the YouTuber profiting from her experience with Abigail. In 2021, Ijeoma said on X, formerly Twitter, that she was well within her rights to “make $ off MY videos if everyone else is.”
The entrepreneur’s attorney also believed it’s her client’s “right” to discuss the situation however she sees fit, especially after being deemed a liar by many in the Milburn community.
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“She knew that in Millburn, New Jersey, she would not be believed,” Hinson stated. “And that is exactly what has transpired.”
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