A group of teenagers didn’t properly understand how to tip their server, but once they realized what they’d done, they made right.
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There are plenty of exposed waiter etiquette faux pas that are posted online. Like this pretty major restaurant receipt fiasco, which is apparently a sore spot for both customers and waiters alike.
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If you ask me, there’s no reason to not tip a waiter who’s satisfactorily providing you with service.
In fact, is there anything less attractive than someone who is mean to a waiter? It just deflates your libido, doesn’t it?
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It could also be pretty deflating to an employee’s sense of self worth and, you know, monetary worth. Nearly all waiters in the US survive off of tips, so if you’re not providing the correct amount of gratuity, you’re also hurting their income.
Which is what this awesome waiter unfortunately experienced when they served a group of four teenagers who were going out to eat all by themselves for the first time.
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They were confused about how much to tip the waiter and left not knowing just how little they paid them for their efforts.
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But someone must’ve raised these little peeps with some integrity, because once they got home and learned the correct amount they should’ve tipped their server, they immediately felt guilty and made it right.
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They marched back to the restaurant with this letter.
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First they lauded the waiter for their exemplary service and making sure they had an amazing night.
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Then, they get down to brass tacks: their awful money mess up.
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That’s right, they returned to make sure they paid their waiter the correct amount and apologized profusely.
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A group of teenagers showed more class and consideration than most adults. The gesture was unlike any the waiter had seen before. So they posted the letters to imgur with the following message:
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Nothing more frustrating than when I get little to nothing for a tip and the customer is smiling and thanking me profusely as they exit. These kids came back another day and left this for me at the front desk, with $18 and some change. I’ve been serving a long time, and nothing like this has ever happened to me, or anyone. I don’t know how you learned or educated yourself on tipping, but I really appreciate the effort and kindness. I hope your Homecoming was fantastic!
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What’s really remarkable is that the teens actually educated themselves on the right amount to tip the waiter, something that apparently, most young people have zero clue about and one server on Reddit even started a small thread asking why teens are such poor tippers?
For a lot of people, it was about class and understanding social cues.
“Teenagers may not be aware of when to tip (less likely) and how much to tip (more likely) as their parents have handled it,” one user wrote.
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While others think it’s just a generalization.
“Not all teens are like that, first of all. Ever since I could eat at restaurants on my own I’ve always tipped, even if it was crappy pocket change,” one user wrote. “Second, maybe they just don’t understand how the system works yet? Younger teens are barely testing the waters of their new freedoms, and are still learning the non-written ‘rules’ of doing things yourself. Cut them slack, they probably don’t get it quite yet and will when someone points it out.”
It’s a shame that not all customers are as forthright as these young’uns, and as a waiter, calling customers out for crummy tips is a tricky situation.
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On the one hand you just want to tell them to go and screw themselves.
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But on the other, you probably are working a job because you need to, and there’s the whole messy business of trying to keep it. In America, the “customer’s always right” is the prevailing motto of the service industry.
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But there was a waiter who posted their experience of calling a customer out on a weak tip that didn’t result in their termination:
This happened a few months ago during the college football season. I work at a sports bar on a campus, super close to the stadium.
It was a Saturday, a bit rainy, and I was on the upstairs covered patio. Game was at 1:30 or something, and we were insanely packed. I was turning tables left and right (30 tables on the patio, 4 servers), and the entire place was a labyrinth of guests waiting for a table to open up.
A man in his early 60’s and his three friends were hovering near a 4-top that was getting ready to leave. The table had paid, but were finishing their beers.
We will call this man OG for old guy. I will be me.
As I’m walking past the 4 top, OG stops me.
OG – Hey, is there any way we can get a table?
I wanted to say, “uh, take a look around, you about 75 other people want a table,” but instead I smiled and told him “I have this table getting ready to leave. Just hang out here and snag it when they get up.”
OG says “ok” and I continue running around to other tables.
A few minutes pass and I see my 4 top grabbing their coats and getting out of their seats. I jog to their table, bid them adieu, and wave OG and his friends over.
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OG – Thanks, we’ve waited forever. Can you, like, clean this table off?
Me – Yep give me just one second. I wanted to make sure you got a seat.
OG – Well, we are ready to order and we are in a rush.
At this point, I’d been there since 6:30 AM, it’s now past noon, I’m sick of everyone’s “we are in a rush” shit.
Me – OK, I can take your order now and then I can come back and clean your table.
OG – Well, we really want this table cleared. It’s dirty.
OG’s friend – Just let us order, she said she will clean it when she comes back. We will get our food quicker that way.
Thanks, OG’s friend, you’re the hero we need.
Anyways… I take their order, clean the table, OG becomes a lot nicer now that he has a beer and some chips and salsa apps, and I continue running around.
Their food comes up, I drop it off and OG has a big smile on his face.
OG – Thanks! You have really taken care of us, sorry about complaining earlier.
Me – No problem! I apologize for the wait, this is probably the busiest spot in town right now.
They eat, I bring several refills of beer, then OG wants to settle up, one check. Sweet. This will be great.
Their total was around $58 or something and I drop it off. As I’m walking away, OG grabs my attention, hands me cash and says “keep the change, you did great, and thank you again!”
Awesome! I run back to my server station, check out the cash and see $60.
Are you f*cking kidding me? Are you honestly fucking kidding me? You’ve been pestering me all morning about a table, I practically steal one from other people standing around JUST FOR YOU, I ensure your order gets placed super quick, I bring you several rounds of drinks as soon as you ask for them… Then you compliment me and leave me $2?!!
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I shake it off, go back to their table (they are all still there), and start bussing it, ready for the next hovering group.
The three friends waddle off, and OG is still sitting, watching a game on TV.
OG – “Thank you again, you were great.”
And this is when it all just slipped out. I didn’t plan it, I didn’t intend to say it, but my mouth just went rogue and out it came.
Me – Were you unhappy with your service?
Me- You said I did great several times, I’m just wondering if you were unhappy with your service.
OG – Didn’t I give you $80?
Me – No, sir, you gave me $60.
OG gets wide-eyed, and a panicked look appears on his face.
OG – Oh my god, I’m so sorry, I thought I gave you $80.
He pulls out his wallet, counts his cash to be sure and pulls out another $20.
OG – You’re completely right, I miscounted. I’m so sorry.
At this point I felt like an asshole. So what did I do? I apologized to him.
Me – I’m sorry, I felt like I made your table my priority as you were in a rush, and the $2 tip just really struck a nerve so I wanted to know if I did something wrong.
At this point, his 3 friends come back and overhear what is going on.
Friend #2 – You only tipped her $2?!
Friend #1 – She was great, you better fix that!
OG – It was an honest mistake, I sincerely apologize.
Me – No, I apologize. I shouldn’t have said anything. I feel like a bit of a jerk now.
OG laughed and told me not to worry, I had every right to confront him, and he appreciated that I did.
They left, I pocketed the $20, and went back to zooming around the restaurant.
While I still feel bad about blatantly being like “what’s with the shitty tip?,” I’m still glad I did ask. Yes, some people tip badly on purpose, but that day was proof that sometimes bad tips are mistakes.
Do I confront everyone that stiffs me? No. But him giving me multiple compliments left me frustrated and confused.
All in all, the one time I called a customer out, it ended well. Will I do it again? Probably not, unless they shower me with compliments.
TL;DR – I confronted a customer about a shitty tip, didn’t get in trouble, and he corrected his mistake.
Sometimes, it’s worth opening your mouth and if you can’t, then just hope a group of kind teens are there to right their wrong.
Izzy shows Stacy his lost and found in his apartment on ‘Love Is Blind’ and it shows how many different women have been to his place over the years.
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The Gist:
Izzy and Stacy get engaged in Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
When Stacy visits Izzy’s apartment, she has some serious concerns about the way he lives.
Izzy has a drawer full of items from other women he has slept with over the years, called his “lost and found.”
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Spoiler warning: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
Some of Love Is Blind‘s contestants might think the worst is over when they leave the pods, meet their respective fiancés face-to-face, and begin the next part of their journeys. But that’s where the drama really gets started and Izzy and Stacy prove that in Season 5. Especially when Izzy shows Stacy his apartment for the first time and introduces her to his “lost and found.”
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It’s a drawer full of things that past hook-ups left behind in his home. Izzy does little to hide this part of his apartment. In fact, he is open about it to a fault and Stacy is not happy about the idea of her husband-to-be having such a crass way of describing and organizing other women’s belongings. Can you really blame her?
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Izzy actually has a lost and found in his apartment on ‘Love Is Blind.’
Izzy explains that he keeps earrings and other small items that women have left in his apartment in a drawer in the bathroom. It doesn’t look like the drawer is spilling over with items, but still. The fact that he has a lost and found for that sort of thing and calls it that is a major red flag for Stacy. She says as much and it’s clear that this is part of Izzy’s life that gives her the ick.
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It’s safe to say that the part of Izzy’s life that involves bringing women home for one night stands is over. However, Stacy just can’t fathom why he wouldn’t throw out these lost and found items before he left home to film in the Love Is Blind pods. It’s a fair question.
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‘Love Is Blind’ fans don’t see Izzy and Stacy working out.
The fact that Stacy is majorly turned off by Izzy’s lost and found on Love Is Blind just adds to the handful of reasons why some fans don’t see this pair working out long-term. One viewer tweeted that both Stacy and Izzy are “emotionally unavailable.” Another wrote that they don’t think Stacy is even ready to get engaged, let alone married.
And now that Stacy is seeing some red (or, at the very least, a mix of red and green) flags in Izzy, those fans could be right. Stacy has yet to say “I love you,” and she appears to be concerned about Izzy’s finances. Now, we have this side of him that no one expected. There’s just a lot going on and they haven’t even picked out wedding flowers yet.
Milton from ‘Love Is Blind’ may be young, but he’s dedicated to his career. He has several degrees to his name and is currently getting his MBA.
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The Gist:
Milton’s career as an engineer on Love Is Blind is really important to him.
He and his fianceé Lydia, who is a geologist, geeked out in the pods over their similar fields.
Milton graduated from college already making a six-figure salary, but recently decided to go back to school.
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Spoiler alert: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
When contestants on Love Is Blind start talking in the pods, it’s likely that one of the first questions that comes up is “What do you do for a living?” While it’s not often that contestants will bond over their jobs, Milton and Lydia from Season 5 really seemed to hit it off when it came to talking about their respective fields. While Lydia confirmed she is a geologist, what does Milton do for work? Here’s what we know.
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Milton (right) is seen here talking with ‘Love Is Blind’ contestant Chris Fox
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Milton was making a six-figure salary while filming ‘Love Is Blind,’ but has since went back to school.
Milton entered Love Is Blind at the age of 24. While he may have acted his age at times, he is actually very serious about his education and career.
Milton graduated from Quest Early College High School in 2016 and earned an associate’s degree in mathematics from Lone Star College the same year, per LinkedIn.
He then attended the University of Houston from 2016 to 2019, where he majored in petroleum and geotechnology. Milton then went on to get a master’s degree from the University of Texas at El Paso in 2020. In 2023, Milton also started pursuing an MBA at Rice University, which he expects to complete in 2025.
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At the time of filming Love Is Blind, Milton worked as a senior pipeline control center operator at EverLine. And as his roommate Josh confirmed in Episode 6, he was making a six-figure salary at the time.
But in Nov. 2022, Milton actually switched jobs. He now works as a management trainee at Vopak while also studying at Rice. It’s unclear if he is trying to pivot to a different career as he is pursuing his MBA, but his role at Vopak still falls within the oil and energy wheelhouse.
Clearly, he has a bright future ahead of him and appears to be serious about finding a partner who shares his values and goals. This may be why he decided to set his eyes on Lydia.
Milton from ‘Love Is Blind’ says he is nationally ranked in Pokémon Showdown, but his ELO ratings beg to differ. Is he really as good as he says?
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The Gist:
Milton is a contestant on Love Is Blind Season 5.
While he is in the pods, he connects with and proposes to Lydia.
He tells her that he plays Pokémon Showdown competitively and is nationally ranked, but a closer look at what appears to be his account suggests otherwise.
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Spoiler alert: This article contains spoilers for Season 5 of Love Is Blind.
One castmate from Season 5 of Love Is Blind who we can’t stop thinking about is Milton (real name James Milton Johnson IV).
Born in Honolulu Hawaii, but currently based in Houston, Texas, Milton entered the experiment when he was 24. He also entered the experiment while he was still allegedly in a relationship with another woman, but that’s a whole other story.
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Throughout his time on the show, we, as well as his fianceé Lydia Velez-Gonzalez have learned a lot about Milton. He’s an engineer, he’s had his fair share of medical issues, and he loves rocks. He also is really bad at identifying what a cooler is.
Milton also loves Pokémon. In fact, he claims he’s nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown. But is that true?
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Milton says he is nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown, but we’re unable to find those stats.
In Episode 6, Milton takes Lydia back to his place where we meet his roommate Josh. Josh quickly brings up to Lydia that Milton is a Pokémon lover. He then adds, “You should see us on Pokémon Showdown.”
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Milton, clearly trying to impress his geology-loving woman, says to Josh “Hey, remember I told you we’re like nationally ranked? We’re both up there in national ranking.”
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Josh then tells Lydia that her man is actually banned in five countries on Pokémon Showdown, including U.S. servers. When Lydia asks why, Milton responds “you talk too much s–t, you get banned.” Yikes!
As for Milton being nationally ranked on Pokémon Showdown, we’re unable to find that information.
Assuming that Milton’s username is jamesmiltonj4 on Pokémon Showdown — which is the username he uses on Instagram, TikTok, and Twitter — then he’s not actually the star player he made himself out to be. These are the stats we pulled up for user jamesmiltonj4, who has been a member since July 2017.
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Source: Pokemon Showdown / jamesmiltonj4
Per Smogon.com, ELO ratings start at 1000. And if you take a gander at Milton’s ELO ratings, his highest one is 1223. He is only rated just a little bit higher than the default rating. Most players don’t consider anything under 1600 isn’t a good ELO rating.
If Milton was nationally ranked, his ELO rating would likely be over 2000.
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That said, he may have performed better under a different username or peaked at a different time. But judging from these stats, we’re not too impressed with user jamesmiltonj4, if that does happen to be Milton’s account.
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