A woman recorded her 5-minute walk through Newark, N.J. and shared just a snippet of that walk, which included several men catcalling her.
Sometimes, men wonder what women mean when we say we feel unsafe walking alone, especially at night. Luckily, there are heroes like TikToker @lissalayinlow aka Shady. Shady recorded her 5-minute walk through Newark, N.J., a notoriously dangerous city that was on America’s list of Top 10 Most Dangerous Cities until very recently.
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Throughout her walk, which was in the middle of the day, the 20-year-old was catcalled and even followed by various men. There’s a reason women feel fear on a daily basis, and this is it! So for all those men who think they’re “complimenting” a woman when they catcall her, go watch Shady’s video on TikTok.
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On Shady’s walk through Newark, she encounters several men who feel the need to catcall her.
A catcall is never a compliment because we never know how far a man will go to get what he wants. As a woman who just wants to go for a walk and get from place to place, when men call out, whatever they might be saying, they’re basically suggesting that their desire is more valuable than the woman’s time. It’s already a form of disrespect just by asking for a woman’s attention.
But beyond that, when a man catcalls a woman, she doesn’t know if he will continue to harass her, follow her, assault her, kidnap her, or whatever else he might do to capture the attention he demands. That’s a big part of why it actually is frightening for a woman to be catcalled. The catcall is a hint that something worse could happen.
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So on Shady’s walk, she got several of those hints…and worse. She titled the video, “POV: walkin 5 mins to the corner store in Newark as a female,” and we already know what to expect. The first man shouts at her, “Aye gorgeous. You not speaking? Alright slim goody have a good day.”
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One commenter could relate to this type of catcall. “Yup same in Philly,” she wrote. “It’s always the ‘You ain’t speaking?’” When we don’t answer, which we have every right to do, men seem to think they deserve a response, despite the fact that they’re a stranger and we have things to do. But at least that guy backed off.
“Morning beautiful,” another man said, making it clear that Shady’s appearance has value to him. Sir, we don’t need your input! Shady said, “Morning,” back, perhaps to protect herself from further escalation.
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But a more serious perpetrator weaves throughout Shady’s video. He first shows up in a car, where Shady wrote that he “screamed ‘where u been all my life’ and honked.” A man in a car is doubly threatening because he’s going out of his way to see and comment on the woman, and he is also driving a pretty powerful weapon.
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Another guy shouted, “Ayo, aye gorgeous.” When Shady didn’t answer, he continued, “You ain’t gotta be like that.” Many women have heard this phrase too many times. A commenter empathized and wrote, “‘You don’t gotta be like that…’ Sir, YOU don’t gotta be like that!!!”
That’s the crux of this common catcall—the predators are blaming the victims and trying to gaslight them by hinting that they’re “nice” and that we’re the ones who are in the wrong for ignoring them. But at the end of the day, they don’t have to infringe on a woman’s safety and privacy!
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At this point in the video, the man in the car pulls over. “Babygirl, babygirl” he says as Shady tries to walk away. She’s clearly not interested, but this man is relentless, which is not a good thing.
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As he drives away and Shady walks off, someone else shouts, “Aye wassup, aye. Hey Becky.” Shady responds, “I’m not Becky!” We would probably do the same thing—it’s a smart move on the catcaller’s part to get Shady to respond. He asks, “Aye, what’s your name?” She tells him that her name is Shady. “Alright Shady, be safe,” he says, and luckily leaves her alone.
Then, the guy in the car pulls up on Shady “for the 3rd time.” So, she confronts him. “You are everywhere,” she tells him as she laughs to try to stop from panicking. “You’re just so sexy,” he tells her, which, contrary to popular belief, no woman wants to hear from a random man in the middle of the day. “Bro, he’s following me,” Shady says in the video.
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The man might not even realize that he’s following her, but if I were her, I’d be terrified at that point. Shady shows us that she’s wearing a sweatshirt, glasses, and very little makeup, proving that men will catcall at any time of day for any reason. Then Shady shares, “One of the oldheads who asked my name comes and finds me on his bike.”
At this point, Shady’s been followed by not one, but two, different men. And then, another guy shouts, “Aye gorgeous,” adding to the long list of men who have a lot to learn. In just five minutes, Shady was catcalled by at least six men. This is sadly a systemic problem with the patriarchy that men feel the need to assert power over women, so all we have to do is overthrow the patriarchy and we’re good to go!
After a clip and stills of Norwegian singer Bard (from the duo Ylvis) laying down in a coffin circulated the web, folks wanted to know what happened.
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The Gist
Rumors circulated online in November 2023 that Bård Ylvisåker from the duo Ylvis — of “The Fox (What Does the Fox Say?)” viral fame — passed away.
Folks who saw a VGTV televised “funeral” for the singer, which shows him laying down in a casket, led many to believe he was dead.
Singer Maria Mena led a choir in a slowed-down and sad performance of the viral hit track.
Bård is not dead, however, and the video was just indeed a staged performance.
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The phenomenon of viral one-hit wonders from artists who seemingly come out of nowhere and gain massive popularity on the internet are an interesting phenomenon: for a few weeks (or months, even), these tracks are seemingly everywhere. About a year or two later, playing the track at a party seems like an insult, until the appropriate “throwback” threshold has been reached.
Ylvis (a comedy duo composed of brothers Bård and Vegard Ylvisåker) is one such artist, but fans became worried in November 2023 that Bård may’ve passed away. But what really happened? And what has Ylvis been up to in the years since their hit 2013 track?
What happened to Ylvis?
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And while neither Mena or any of the other singers ever once cracks a smile throughout the performance, the same can’t be said for the folks who were in attendance for the artist’s funeral.
Which probably means one of the following:
(A) A few people at the funeral who were happy to see the singer dead
(B) A testament to how much of a bop “The Fox (What Does the Fox Say?) is
(C) Norwegians either have strange funeral customs or a sick sense of humor
(D) The funeral was staged, Bård is still alive, and the video was a bit of dark humor in action
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Of course one could add to the final aforementioned multiple choice selection that Ylvis could be making a wider statement on the life cycle of viral one-hit wonder tracks in general.
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Bård is indeed still among the living; after the performance, he even stood up, exited the coffin, and conducted an interview afterward.
While it’s difficult to imagine that anyone would see the video and so many of the laughing folks watching and recording the performance, and think that Bård legitimately died, there are some images that could’ve been lifted from the video that would lead folks to think he actually passed away.
And it wouldn’t be just pictures of him in his coffin that could convince folks he died; Marina Mena shared some photos in a multi-picture Instagram upload that shows just how far the video production went to replicate the look and feel of a legitimate funeral.
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In her post, she features a snapshot of a memoriam pamphlet showing Bård’s face along with his birth and fake death year and in another photo she’s holding up the same exact image on a funeral portrait style painting.
Again, however, the jovial nature of the other pictures in the post don’t exactly scream “rest in peace.”
What is Ylvis of “What Does the Fox Say” fame doing now?
After their 2013 mega-hit, the brothers continued to put out music, releasing their first album in 2014. They also continued to appear on Norwegian TV (where they first grew to fame) and even released a documentary series in 2018 that took stories from Norwegian news and turned them into musicals. And in 2022, they began making content for VGTV.
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The guys also post a slew of funny social media posts, interspersed with clips of musical performances, and even some extended love for the track that was a global phenomenon. A great example would be the somber instrumental version of “The Fox (What Does the Fox Say?)” set to this brilliant clip of a lost McDonald’s cheeseburger’s globe-trotting journey back home to their McFamily.
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So while yes, viral songs, just like many popular songs, can certainly become annoying after a while, Ylvis seems to be demonstrating a certain amount of gratitude for what they’re most known for while also displaying a stalwart ability to stick to a bit.
Joshua Jackson and Lupita Nyong’o appear to be dating. When did they get together? What’s the latest on their relationship? Details are ahead!
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The Gist:
Joshua Jackson’s marriage to Jodie Turner-Smith ended in October 2023.
Lupita Nyong’o also split up with her boyfriend around the same time.
The two actors have been seen together in recent months.
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Pacey is all grown up and making adult decisions about his dating life. Joshua Jackson has separated from his wife of three years and appears to be dating someone new: Lupita Nyong’o.
So when did the new couple get together? Tongues have been wagging in Hollywood and beyond about the possible timeline. Here are the all details about their relationship.
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October 2023: Joshua Jackson and Lupita Nyong’o first popped up together at a Janelle Monáe concert.
In October 2023, the former teen heartthrob and the Black Panther star were first spotted at a Janelle Monáe concert in Los Angeles, but fans weren’t sure what to make of the outing, since they were with a group of friends, per People.
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We’ll get to the interesting timing of the event in a moment, but first, the two would seemingly soon confirm that they are dating when Joshua and Lupita were seen running errands together in early December, also in Los Angeles.
Finally, on Dec. 5, Joshua and Lupita were photographed hand-in-hand in Joshua Tree, Calif., putting speculation to rest that they are indeed together after ending their respective previous relationships.
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Joshua Jackson split from Jodie Turner-Smith, his wife of three years, in October 2023.
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But by October 2023, Joshua and Jodie were done with happily ever after, with the actor’s wife filing for divorce and citing “irreconcilable differences.”
Sources even speculated that the union had grown “unhealthy.”
Someone who talked to People said about the couple who is no longer, “They are on very different paths in life. It turned into an unhealthy marriage that made her unhappy.”
Meanwhile, Lupita was with a partner and ended things on similarly cringeworthy terms. Perhaps the two A-listers bonded over their shared experiences getting out of toxic relationships?
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Lupita Nyong’o and her ex went their separate ways in October 2023.
Lupita dated her boyfriend Selema Masekela for about a year before things went way sour for the couple.
The star announced the couple’s bad breakup on social media, sharing in October 2023, “At this moment, it is necessary for me to share a personal truth and publicly dissociate myself from someone I can no longer trust. I find myself in a season of heartbreak because of a love suddenly and devastatingly extinguished by deception.”
Ouch!
As for how serious things will get between Joshua and Lupita, well, for now other than the photos of the two holding hands, neither has confirmed the relationship or commented publicly on their feelings for one another.
We’ll have to wait and see if this is more than just a rebound — but is it bad if we really hope so?
An “Amish oil change” is the latest term spreading around TikTok, but many are unclear on the meaning behind the phrase and what it refers to.
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The Gist:
The term “Amish oil change” has been circulating on TikTok recently, and it has two definitions that are nasty in different ways.
The first involves a procedure that ensures that a horse has regular bowel movements, and the second involves performing a sexual act on the animal.
Frankly, we would encourage you to avoid trying either definition on your own if you can avoid it.
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While there are plenty of people who know how to change the oil in their cars, even those who are particularly good with cars may be confused by the idea of an Amish oil change. The phrase, which has trended on TikTok, seems to be a paradoxical take on the phase. After all, the Amish quite famously don’t drive cars.
Although the idea of an Amish oil change predates the internet, the phrase has become much more well known in large part thanks to its appearance on TikTok. Now, many people want to know what it means.
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What is an Amish oil change on TikTok?
In a car, oil changes are a necessary part of maintenance. If you don’t change the oil in your car regularly, it won’t work anymore.
The same is true for horses, who are living beings in their own right. They’re also key to many people’s livelihoods, including the Amish. Just like cars, horses need to be taken care of if you want them to carry you from place to place like the Amish do. The Amish also use horses to plow fields instead of using big machinery.
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An Amish oil change refers to a particularly nasty procedure that anyone, Amish or not, who has a horse may have had to do at some point. If a horse is sick and hasn’t been pooping regularly, its caretakers may have to put on a glove that goes all the way up to their shoulder. They reach into the horse’s rear end and unblock it so that it can once again have regular bowel movements.
Suddenly, the dirt required to change the oil on your car doesn’t seem too bad. For many non-Amish horse owners, they would call a veterinarian to come out and treat the horse — Amish oil change included. Although the Amish likely take care of a blockage themselves, most horse owners will pay a professional.
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The term “Amish oil change” came about because it’s a little bit like changing the oil on your car.
It’s a fairly clever turn of phrase that describes a pretty nasty part of animal care. Still, if you’re someone who works with horses regularly, you’re likely familiar with how gross the work can be at times.
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Urban Dictionary has an even grosser definition of the term.
If you’ve seen the term on TikTok, the definition explained above might be the one being used, but it’s also possible that an even grosser definition is the one you’re seeing.
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According to Urban Dictionary, an Amish oil change is “when a woman performs Fellatio on a horse and spits the cum out.”
Welp. Frankly, the less said about that particular definition of the term, the better.
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