The “default parent” concept is taking over social media, which refers to someone who’s first in line to care for their kids and child-related tasks.
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Just the Gist:
A “default parent” refers to the parent who’s first in line to care for their kids and child-related responsibilities.
The concept is going viral of social media, especially TikTok.
Many parents are taking to the platform to share their experiences as a “default parent.”
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If you find your child favoring you over your partner for anything and everything (comfort, permission, etc.), you just might be the “default parent.” But wait, what does that actually mean? The relatively new concept is currently taking social media by storm, and we think there’s no better time to delve into the intriguing phenomenon.
So, keep scrolling to learn more!
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What is a “default parent”?
Although being the “default parent” is a massive trend on TikTok, it’s more than that — it’s an exhausting and stressful experience that destroys the physical and mental well-being of millions of parents (specifically mothers) every day.
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According to Psychology Today, the “default parent” is the one who is “first in line when it comes to caring for children, child-related responsibilities, or home-related tasks.” Now, even if two parents are present and ready to care for their kid(s), the “default parent” usually carries the bigger load in parenting.
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TikTok user Cassey Ahlas (@casseysjourney) recently spoke about being a “default parent” in a now-viral video, telling her followers that she and all the other “default parents” deserve to be appreciated for all the hard work they do.
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“If you can do daily life things such as go to the grocery store, go to the gym … and not have to worry about childcare, you better thank the default parent because, let me tell you right now, I’m the default parent in my situation,” Cassey said. “24/7, 365 and this s— is stressful. It is the most selfless, thankless, loving job on the planet.”
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She continued, “So, if you can do your daily life every day, and not have to worry about your kids being taken care of, you better thank the default parent.”
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Many other “default parents” have taken to TikTok to share their frustrations. One woman revealed that she gave her husband their baby so she could get ready for the day. She stopped for two minutes, and her husband saw this as an opportunity to ditch the kid and mow the lawn — even though she clearly wasn’t done getting ready.
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“No one understands the resentment of being the ‘default parent.’ Imagine being the mother and having to ask to do anything, but your husband can just grab his keys and leave,” TikTok creator Mariah Olson (@mvolson19) said.
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Mariah added, “You’re stuck with all the responsibilities of the kids while he gets to leave the house daily to live his life just like it was before kids without feeling guilty or worry about how the kids are … because you’re expected to have it all done. He gets to come home to clean clothes, groceries in the fridge, the kids taken care of, and you’re expected to be happy when he’s home… please normalize this feeling…”
Facebook changed the color of their logo, and many people are starting to notice and wondering what led to the change in logo and color.
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The Gist:
Facebook updated its logo on Sept. 20, 2023, with a deeper blue and some small changes to the “f” in the logo.
The changes were designed to make the logo more “electrifying” and “everlasting,” but they definitely aren’t major shifts.
The company also made slight updates to its wordmark to align it with the new logo.
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Although it may not be as popular with younger generations as it once was, Facebook remains the most widely used social media service on the planet. As such, Facebook has remained remarkably consistent over the years, doing very little rock the boat or change up its platform so that users feel uncomfortable or confused.
On Sept. 20, 2023, Facebook made a change that many people may have overlooked. Now, as they open the app or look at it on their browser, though, they have realized that something seems different. The blue in the logo seems different, and many people want to know why.
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Did Facebook change their blue?
Facebook did make a slight update to its logo, and the blue in the logo is now a bit darker. Additionally, they made a few minor changes to the “f” that are almost imperceptible unless you know where they are.
Meta, the company behind Facebook, explained the change by saying that they wanted to make a new logo that seemed “everlasting.”
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“Our intention was to create a refreshed design of the Facebook logo that was bolder, electric, and everlasting,” the company said in a blog post. “Each of the distinctive, new refinements drive greater harmony across the entire design as a key element of the app’s identity. We’ve done this by incorporating a more confident expression of Facebook’s core blue color that is built to be more visually accessible in our app and provides stronger contrast for the ‘f’ to stand apart.”
The logo is certainly different, but it isn’t a radical change, which makes sense. According to Meta’s own statistics, Facebook is visited by a staggering 2 billion people every day, so a radical overhaul of the logo would likely cause a pretty significant disruption. They’ve updated the logo, but hopefully they haven’t made it any harder for all of their regular users to find the app on their phones.
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Facebook also updated its wordmark.
In addition to updating its signature logo, Facebook updated its wordmark with a new font and a blue to match the logo.
“Using our custom typeface, Facebook Sans, we redesigned the wordmark and logo to create a consistent treatment and improve overall legibility across Facebook,” Meta explained.
“Similar to the changes to the logo symbol, these refinements allowed us to build upon the heritage of our identity, while creating a stronger relationship between how the wordmark pairs with the rest of the typeface,” the company continued.
Facebook did change its blue, but apparently, the company is hoping that this new blue will last forever. Check back on that in five years.
Professional wrestler Jade Cargill left AEW for WWE because the opportunities are endless and she wants to create a legacy in the industry.
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The Gist:
Jade Cargill is an American professional wrestler.
In September 2023, Jade left AEW and signed a multi-year contract with WWE.
Jade said she left AEW to “create a legacy” and “wrestle with the best women in the world.”
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After nearly three years, Jade Cargill said goodbye to AEW. The professional wrestler’s last match with the promotion took place during the Sept. 15 episode of Rampage, losing to Kris Statlander in a title rematch.
Following her departure, Jade reported to the WWE Performance Center, and on Sept. 26, WWE officially announced that she signed a multi-year contract with the promotion. Although we’re excited to see her in the WWE, we can’t help but wonder: Why did Jade Cargill leave AEW?
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Why did Jade Cargill leave AEW?
On Sept. 26, 2023, WWE officials confirmed the rumors and told ESPN’s Marc Raimondi that they signed former AEW champion Jade Cargill. The superstar officially started training with WWE at its Performance Center that same day.
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It’s unclear if she will perform on the main roster or its developmental brand, NXT, but we know she’ll make an instant impact wherever she goes. Despite her first professional wrestling match taking place a little over two years ago, Jade has already proven to be a generational talent with the drive to be the best.
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Ahead of her WWE debut, Jade opened up about why she left AEW on the Masked Man Show podcast. She told hosts David Shoemaker and Kazeem Famuyide, “I want to create a legacy. I want to be in the Hall of Fame. I want to wrestle with the best women in the world.”
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“I mean, there is no grander stage than this stage — the opportunities are endless with this company,” Jade added. “It was a no-brainer. It was very welcoming. I didn’t have any second thoughts about it at all. It was just an easy choice. It wasn’t easy, but it was easy [laughs].”
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Jade also confirmed that Cody Rhodes, who helped bring her to AEW, persuaded her to leave the brand for WWE.
“He is a phenomenal man,” she stated. “I’ve seen what the business did for him, I’ve seen him just be the stellar athlete that he is. I didn’t see [it] any different for myself. But, yes, he was one of the guys that led me to a great decision.”
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Becky Lynch thinks it’s “great” that Jade joined the WWE.
In September 2023, WWE superstar Becky Lynch spoke with The New York Post and commented on Jade’s decision to join the company. She told the outlet, “I watch all the products [referencing other promotions]. I think it’s great.”
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Imagine Jade Cargill answering Becky’s open challenge and beating her in her first match. Now that would be a debut!
“More women with more platforms,” Becky added. “I think she has a lot of work to do when she gets here, but if she is willing to do that, just look at her. She’s a star. It’s more people for me to get in the ring with and kick their a—-.”
We don’t know about you, but we can’t wait to see Jade get in the ring with Becky one day!
‘Welcome to Plathville’ star Moriah Plath was diagnosed with alopecia as a kid and it impacted her a lot. Here’s where she stands today with the past.
The Gist:
Welcome to Plathville‘s Moriah struggled with alopecia during her childhood.
The condition led to her low self-worth.
Years later, the reality star is more at peace with her experience.
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Many of us have difficult things from our pasts that define us today, and Moriah Plath of Welcome to Plathville is no different. In her case, however, her childhood diagnosis of alopecia was hidden away for years — until now.
Although the reality star once tried to pretend that this upsetting time in her life never happened, she is coming to terms with having lost all of her hair as a kid.
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Moriah Plath’s alopecia diagnosis truly shaped who she was for many years.
As other sufferers know, alopecia is a type of hair loss that occurs on the scalp, face, and body, per the American Academy of Dermatology Association. It can begin at any age, and for Moriah, at age 3, she received her diagnosis.
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“I would look myself in the mirror and I would say, ‘You are ugly. Nobody will ever love you,’” she heartbreakingly recalls during an episode of the show.
She goes on to explain, “I lost all my hair for several years completely, not even eyebrows or eyelashes,” per People.
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Moriah, who described herself as “completely bald,” shared more about her experience with the incurable disease, saying during the show, “The doctors said it was alopecia but it was like a rare kind of alopecia cause it just all fell out immediately and came back years later. Everywhere I went, I was made fun of by kids my age: [at] church, [by] my siblings. And that’s when I really started to see myself as different.”
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Moriah tried to block out her alopecia experience when her hair came back.
Moriah was seemingly in denial about having had alopecia, relaying that “every single one of my family members knew never to show a picture of me when I was younger to anybody. And never to tell anybody.”
Moriah admitted she wanted to “block” out the very hard time in her life, and in one scene of Welcome to Plathville, she says to her father that when her hair returned, she decided to “forget” about the alopecia.
Moriah’s parents Barry and Kim made her feel “beautiful” when she had alopecia.
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In a moving Instagram post shared in May 2023, Moriah said about her father Barry Plath, “He’s shown me the meaning of unconditional love.”
Moriah’s parents were very supportive during her struggles with alopecia.
Indeed, it seems that during the years she had alopecia, Barry and his ex-wife Kim were a source of support for their daughter.
“I think you and mom were the only ones that actually told me I was beautiful,” Moriah tells Barry on the episode.
Still, her parents couldn’t make her pain go away completely. “For a while I was angry because you guys couldn’t fix it and you were my parents and you were supposed to fix it, but you couldn’t,” she shares.
Today, it seems that Moriah is more comfortable with her past, since she is addressing the experience with the condition on a TV show. Since as many as 160 million people around the world suffer from alopecia, there’s no doubt that the reality star opening up about her own diagnosis will help others feel more seen.
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