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Wife Says Husband Has Dog Playdates With 23-Year-Old Gal Pal

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On Mumsnet, a woman asks if she’s wrong for being bothered her 35-year-old husband’s weekly “dog playdates” with a 23-year-old female friend.

By Jamie Lee

Sep. 7 2023, Published 6:25 p.m. ET

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That’s the situation one wife is finding herself in, as her 30-something husband is suddenly having weekly dog-walking meetups with a new 23-year-old gal pal. He says she’s just a friend, but the wife is none too pleased about it.

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In a post on the parenting forum Mumsnet, the wife laid out the details — which seem to get wilder as her story goes on…

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This woman’s 35-year-old husband has “dog playdates” with his new 23-year-old female friend — twice a week, every week.

In the beginning of her post, the wife explains that she’s looking for a “reality check” because she realizes her fears might just all be in her own head.

But she can’t quite shake the feeling that something is “odd” with her husband’s new friend, whom he met at a workshop.

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You see, the husband and the new friend apparently bonded over having dogs. And now they meet up for weekly dog walks. Which sounds fine, in theory, until you learn that this friend is a 23-year-old woman. And that she bought the husband a birthday gift. And that she texts him a lot.

The husband insists it’s fine. He even thinks his wife would love this new friend too.

Let’s let the wife explain the whole story in her own words…

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“DH [Darling Husband] is 35 and I admit, usually quite an isolated man,” the wife writes. “He works from home and does have very few friends and hobbies.”

“He has wanted a dog his whole life,” she says, “and I admit that I am not a huge animal person, I do love our dog but DH does do almost it all, especially as he is the one at home (I work full-time out the house).”

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“He had to go for an in-person workshop a few months ago,” she explains, “and there was an icebreaker challenge (I’m honestly shocked they still do this!) and this 23-year-old mentioned her new puppy (hers was only about 13 weeks and ours 8 months at this time) and apparently they clicked over the dogs??”

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“Not trying to be a downer here, but surely owning a dog isn’t that rare, I am friends with about eight people that have dogs,” the wife writes. “I instantly found it rather childish when he was telling me but this woman ended up giving her number to him at the end of the day.”

“DH tells me how he told her how much me and her would get along and tried to say as much as he could to me to make it sound so obviously nothing more than friends but I just got the impression he had a bit of chemistry there,” she adds.

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“Anyway,” she says, “I don’t want to go on for pages and pages with every little detail. Basically he did text her and they arranged a playdate for the dogs, the messages seem very innocent and he would always tell me and it didn’t seem like he was telling me for any weird motive and was just out of excitement (don’t want to s— on his cereal, but I’m really not getting it and never have).”

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“She then got him a birthday present only a week later and now they meet up twice a week every week to walk the dogs,” she writes. “He’s very open about it with me and is never trying to act secretive but it really rubs me up the wrong way, I think I must have issues because seriously, him even saying her name makes me cringe. Am I just massively insecure??”

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“I simply don’t like it,” the wife says, “she sounds a bit obsessive with him and DH has said how he does purposely leave a minimum 12-hour delay before responding to her because she replies almost instantly and constantly sends him pictures of her dog, I said to him just tell her to stop and he really just says ‘no I don’t mind her doing it if she wants to’ so then I ask why he delays replying and he says because he just doesn’t want the expectation of him just being there to respond all day.”

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“Seriously I hate the whole thing. AIBU?” the wife concludes her post, with the last part standing for “Am I being unreasonable?”

She later added in one of the comments in the forum that her husband “has offered for me to come but he knows I couldn’t think of anything worse.”

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Commenters weighed in on the wife’s situation.

Many commenters related to how the wife was feeling. They felt that this would ring alarm bells for them too.

“I’m a dog lover I don’t think this is normal behavior,” wrote one Mumsnet user, while another said: “Funny how when these things happen, it’s never another man that people ‘click’ with, is it?”

However, some felt there was perhaps a double standard at play, or that none of this was too unusual.

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“If this was reversed it would be a different kettle of fish, one would presume? He’s been open and honest, OP, where’s the trust?” one person wrote.

“I’ve started weekly dog walks with someone from work… who is a man 😳 is it really making it seem like you’ve got a thing for them? It’s good for the dogs,” another person commented.

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Another suggested that perhaps the wife should tag along next time and then explain to her husband why she feels uncomfortable and where she stands on the issue if he were to continue.

And one commenter put it this way: “To be fair it sounds like your DH knows that this could cause issues, probably doesn’t ‘like like’ her but is enjoying the attention … what man wouldn’t urgh. He knows he should put a stop to it with the 12 hours thing but just can’t bring himself too. I do think she is being really inappropriate and he should back off.”

What do you think about this wife’s situation? Is the other woman barking up the wrong tree? (Sorry, had to.)

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Manager Accuses Diabetic Employee of Injecting Drugs While on the Job

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A TikTok user claims their manager accused them of being a drug addict after finding an insulin syringe in her backpack.

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Being a manager who has been tasked with “running a tight ship” can often be a daunting and thankless task. Sure, you receive a pay bump that comes with greater responsibilities, but oftentimes you can be put in a position where the employees who work under your supervision can resent you, and your workplace superiors will often give you an inordinate amount of work to do.

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You’re put in a position where you’re receiving flak from both sides, which can lead to some pretty high-stress scenarios. And while there are some bosses workers absolutely adore, there are others who are doing whatever they can to make a company profitable and allow that to cloud their judgment when it comes to enforcing certain policies.

And then there are those who act in ways that leave people wondering just how in the world they were ever even considered for a promotional experience in the first place. Like this encounter, a TikTok user had with her boss that many people are saying was entirely out of line and possibly illegal.

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TikToker Abby Gebo, who posts under the handle @thegebos, uploaded a now-viral clip about an interaction she had with her boss regarding her insulin medication. She captioned the video with the following: “diabetic storytime.”

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Abby said that her manager had looked through her backpack for whatever reason and found a syringe in there. Maybe because he was watching a lot of The Wire or just saw Trainspotting, but he instantly assumed that the syringes were being used for intravenous recreational drug use.

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Abby says that her manager spoke to a coworker about the backpack, stating that he was going to look into the needles further. When he confronted Abby about the bag, she said that he told her he “really expected better from her.”

The statement left the TikToker bewildered.

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Then her manager asked her outright if she was doing drugs. “Do I look like I’m doing drugs?” Abby rejoined. She went on to remind her boss that she was diabetic, a fact about her that Abby says he was already aware of.

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He didn’t immediately accept that explanation, however, stating that his own niece was a diabetic and never used needles, just pumps in order to give herself insulin.

“OK um, I can’t wait to sue you, but some people can’t afford pumps and have to use like vials and syringes,” Abby retorts in her video.

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The TikTok user’s interactions with her manager only got worse from there when he demanded that she prove to him she was using insulin. She noted to her viewers on the social media platform that even though she didn’t have to offer up proof of her medical condition, she did so anyway, presenting her vials of insulin to him.

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“You’re lucky, but I’m watching you,” Abby says her boss told her, adding that he was ensuring that none of the staff under his employ were abusing recreational drugs.

Abby quit her job that very day and many commenters who responded to her TikTok mentioned that it was illegal for her boss to not only look through her stuff, but question her about her medical condition.

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In fact, under the Americans with Disabilities Act, it’s illegal for any employer to discriminate against a worker for having a disability or medical condition. Many who saw Abby’s video believe that if what she’s saying is true then her manager was in direct violation of this law, which could fall under a Federal offense.

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What Are the New Emojis on iOS17? How to See Them All

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iOS17 brings plenty of new features and technologies with it, but many want to learn more about the new emojis that the latest software update has.

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The Gist:

  • iOS17 is going to come with 118 new emojis, but those emojis have not been rolled out to the software yet.
  • Among the new emojis are a phoenix, a brown mushroom, a broken chain, and a bunch of new configurations for family and people.
  • Users are eagerly anticipating the rollout of these new emojis to their software.

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Every new version of Apple’s operating software brings plenty of cool features with it, so much so that regular people actually get excited to update their devices. In addition to all of the new technologies and tools that these updates have, though, many people get most excited for the new emojis that each iOS update may bring.

Fortunately, those hoping for new emojis with iOS17 got quite a few, including some that are brand new and some that are variations on emojis that most people are likely to be familiar with already. All in all, there are supposed to be 118 new emojis coming to iOS17, although they haven’t actually hit the software yet.

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What are the new emojis on iOS17?

The new emojis were formally confirmed last week, so now it’s up to Apple to get them rolled out.

Among the highlights from the new list of emojis are a head shaking itself up and down and another one shaking its head side to side. Additionally, there will be a new brown mushroom emoji and an emoji of a phoenix that many people are sure to find useful. There will also be a lime and a broken chain.

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Additionally, there will be new gender-neutral family configurations including

  • Adult, adult child
  • Adult, child, child
  • Adult, child
  • Adult, adult, child, child

There are also some new people emojis coming, including:

  • Person with white cane facing right
  • Person walking facing right
  • The person running facing right
  • Person kneeling facing right
  • Person in manual wheelchair facing right
  • Person in motorized wheelchair facing right

For a full list of the new emojis that are slated to be available on iOS17, you check out this list.

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Apple users are eager to get the new emojis.

Now that iOS17 has rolled out, many users are eager to actually start using the emojis themselves and are wondering when they might become available.

“Are there seriously no new emojis with iOS17?” one person asked, clearly confused by the delayed rollout.

In fact, this new iOS will actually have way more new emojis than the last update did. When iOS16 first rolled out, it only came with 16 new emojis.

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Of course, it remains to be seen how valuable or frequently used these new emojis will be, but what does seem clear is that new emojis are one of the main reasons that users eagerly anticipate iOS updates.

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There are other new features that come with the new software, including NameDrop, Stickers, and Standby Mode.

For many, though, these new technologies pale in comparison with the ability to add a little phoenix to a text or post on social media, and understandably so.

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Woman Was Almost Abducted While Livestreaming at Post Office

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In a now-viral video, a woman named Courtney shares the shocking moment she was almost abducted while livestreaming at a post office.

By D.M.

Sep. 21 2023, Published 8:55 a.m. ET

A TikTok user found herself in a frightening situation. The user thinks she was almost abducted while livestreaming and got all of it on video. Courtney Dye (@courtkneee2point0) was livestreaming while at a U.S. post office in August when the terrifying ordeal took place.

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In the livestream, which has since been posted in full, Courtney is handling her mail while inside the post office in Broken Arrow, Okla. The clip begins innocently as Courtney is examining her packages before shipping them. Here’s what went down.

Woman thinks she was almost abducted and got it all on video.

Although the video starts off normal, it quickly takes a shocking turn. A woman enters from outside the frame and explains that she was lost and looking for help. “I’m lost but I don’t speak English very good,” the unidentified woman says. “I don’t know where I can go.”

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Courtney attempts to give directions but the woman suggests that she was unsure how to get to her destination from the post office. Courtney then offers to take the woman home and then the encounter gets weird.

The video cuts to Courtney having a conversation with the woman and suggests that the woman contact a highway patrol officer to help her find her way home. Courtney continues to ask the woman where she was coming from but wasn’t able to get additional information. The woman simply repeated “I’m lost.”

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A police officer then entered the building, but it isn’t clear who contacted the authorities. After Courtney recorded the livestream, her followers immediately requested a follow-up video.

Source: TikTok/@courtkneee2point0

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Courtney was unharmed in the potential abduction.

After Courtney posted the video of what she believes was an abduction attempt, her 16,000 TikTok followers demanded she provide an update on her wellbeing. “Please share a part two. The more awareness the better,” one person wrote. While others were thankful that Courtney was livestreaming the incident.

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In the second half of the livestream, which Courtney posted later, the responding police officer escorts the woman out of the post office. It isn’t clear whether the woman was truly lost, but the officer was presumably able to help her get to her destination.

Courtney then explained that she went to the post office after dark to ship out packages for her customers. However, Courtney decided not to finish the task and left the post office out of fear that she was being watched.

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Other attempted abductions have been caught on camera.

Courtney had every right to weary of the lone woman in the post office, as kidnapping attempts have been captured on video in abundance. In January a video showing an man attempting to pull a barista through a Starbucks drive-thru window went viral. The video, shared by the Auburn Police Department, shows a man in a pickup truck grabbing an employee and attempting to place zip ties on her wrists.

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The man was later identified as Matthew Darnell, after he was arrested thanks to tips from viewers, according to Fox 13. Matthew was charged with attempted kidnapping in the second degree with a finding of sexual motivation. He was also charged with assault in the first degree.

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