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Woman Says Boyfriend Wants to Be Friends With Dating-App Girl

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On the Mumsnet forum, one woman said her boyfriend planned to meet up with a girl he’d previously met on a dating app and considered a “friend.”

By Jamie Lee

Sep. 14 2023, Published 3:25 p.m. ET

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Here’s an interesting concept. Is it possible to meet up with someone on a dating app, only for you to both realize you’re better off as friends — and then actually follow through on hanging out as just friends?

Sounds like it’d be pretty hard to pull off. Usually if you don’t have chemistry on a date, you go your separate ways and that’s that, right?

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Well, one woman on Mumsnet is faced with this exact conundrum right now, as her boyfriend plans to meet up for a friendly drink with a gal he once met online.

You see, apparently her boyfriend and this girl realized they “weren’t each other’s type” when they originally met up for a date; instead, they saw themselves better as friends.

So, in the boyfriend’s mind, it’s totally cool for him to meet up with this girl for a “drink and a chat.” But is it really, though?

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Would you let your boyfriend hang out with a girl he once met on a dating app?

On the U.K. parenting forum Mumsnet, a user named Prettypearl21 (we’ll call her Pearl) posted her story in the “Am I Being Unreasonable?” (AIBU) subforum, titling it:

“My boyfriend wants to go out with a girl he met on a dating app — AIBU to be bothered by it?”

Pearl explained in her post:

“My boyfriend is lovely. He’s 26, I’m 22. We met on a dating app a few months back. He’s from a different country, and although he is sociable and friendly he doesn’t have many friends here, just a few.”

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“I was speaking to him on the phone tonight,” she continued. “He told me he will be meeting an ‘acquaintance’ tomorrow evening. I asked for more information about who it was as he seemed hesitant to tell me any more, and he told me it was a girl he met on the dating app in February.”

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Pearl went on: “He’d never mentioned her before this. He said she is about his age and an athlete. Apparently, when they went out (before he met me) they weren’t each other’s type, they only see each other as friend, and now he wants to go out with her tomorrow one on one, to get a drink and have a chat. In all honestly I was quite surprised. Is this OK in a relationship?”

The general consensus seemed to be: “Throw the whole man away.”

“He wants to have his cake and eat it, throw the whole man away,” wrote one commenter, while another echoed this trash-related imagery with: “If she was just a friend he would’ve told you about her and not tried to hide things. Bin him.”

“Have some respect for yourself. Get rid. ASAP,” said another, while yet another commented: “That’s called a date.”

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“Do you have male friends that you spend time with one-to-one?” asked one commenter, while another noted that “the fact that he didn’t want to tell you is a major red flag.”

“I made a friend through online dating, we weren’t compatible as a couple but made good friends. I carried on seeing him as a friend once I’d met [my now-husband] but gradually stopped as I suspected [my husband was slightly bothered by it,” another person mentioned.

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Some folks, however, were “surprised” by the “extreme reaction” to this woman’s post.

“’m a bit surprised by the extreme reaction to this,” one commenter said. “I’ve made friends through dating apps and still catch up now and again. We got on well, but didn’t fancy each other. My partner also has female friends he met through dating apps. He sees them occasionally — and I’ve met them too.”

“I suppose it just depends on the type of person your partner is,” this same commenter continued. “I suspect the fact that he doesn’t have loads of friends in this country make him keen to hang onto the few he already has. I can also see why he might not have brought it up — perhaps worried about the reaction, rather than any intention to deceive you?

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There seem to be valid points on both sides. What would you tell this woman? Kick this dude to the curb, or try to figure this out and work through it?

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“Victoria’s Secret Karen” Lawsuit Says She Was Mislabeled

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The legal teams for Abigail Elphick and Ijeoma Ukenta, have said the “Victoria’s Secret” Karen viral video wasn’t about race, as previously assumed.

Just the Gist:

  • Abigail Elphick and Ijeoma Ukenta were involved in a viral TikTok that gave Abigail the nickname “Victoria’s Secret Karen”
  • Abigail’s legal team states she suffers from multiple mental and physical health conditions.

  • Ijeoma sued Abigail and Victoria’s Secret in 2023 for reportedly being “extremely dismissive” during the ordeal.

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Since 2020, the term “Karen” has been a social stigma on white women in U.S. society. The term spawned a meme and a character trait, as cases viral videos of white women threatening to call the police and other authorities on strangers who were notably Black or other people of color began emerging on TikTok and other platforms.

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In July 2021, Abigail Elphick, a then-25-year-old white woman living in Milburn, N.J., found herself labeled as the “Victoria’s Secret Karen” after chasing a Black woman named Ijeoma Ukenta for recording her behavior in the famed lingerie store.

Two years after their “Victoria’s Secret Karen,” incident went viral, Abigail and Ijeoma filed lawsuits against one another, with Abigail stating the public mislabeled her and her intentions on that fateful day.

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Here’s everything to know about the Victoria’s Secret Karen lawsuit.

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Legal filings revealed “Victoria’s Secret Karen” Abigail Elphick has a “long history of medical and psychological conditions.”

By now, millions of social media users have seen Abigail and Ijeoma’s viral TikTok exchange (and if you haven’t keep scrolling!), which involved Abigail hysterically crying as she begs Ijeoma “please don’t record me” and chasing Ijeoma around the store. In September 2023, Abigail and her legal team shared that the truth behind the video is vastly different than what viewers were led to believe.

According to The New York Times (via Yahoo), legal filings show that Abigail, who was quickly labeled Victoria’s Secret Karen on TikTok and other social platforms, was “disabled, with a long history of medical and psychological conditions” when she entered the Victoria’s Secret store.

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Abigail’s team argues that her conditions prompted her “mental health breakdown” and that her behavior at Victoria’s secret wasn’t “race-based.” They stated Abigail was upset because she feared she would lose her job and her apartment, as she lives in a residence for those with developmental and intellectual disabilities.

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The latter reportedly happened, as court records show Abigail received a call from a stranger threatening to rape and kill her, and other online users demanding she lose her internship as a local school district. The call prompted Tom Toronto, president of Bergen County’s United Way, the company that runs Abigail’s residence, to speak out in her defense.

“She has a disorder. She has anxiety,” he explained to The Times. “She had a meltdown. Then the world we live in took over, and it became something entirely different than what it actually was.”

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Ijeoma Ukenta filed a lawsuit in July 2023 against Abigail and Victoria’s Secret.

Abigail’s September 2023 comments were in response to Ijeoma’s July 2023 lawsuit against Abigail and Victoria’s Secret.

On July 6, Ijeoma, a content creator, sued Abigail, Victoria’s Secret, and the store’s security guards. Ijeoma stated in her complaint that the store’s security “were extremely dismissive toward her,” and were “indifferent and nonchalant about her concerns for her safety.”

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Amid Ijeoma’s filing, Abigail’s counterclaim accused Ijeoma of “harassment” for discussing her and Abigail’s altercation online.

Since the “Victoria’s Secret Karen” video went viral, Ijeoma has received flack for profiting off the incident.

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Ijeoma’s GoFundMe and additional content surrounding her initial video caused many people following the story to raise their eyebrows. Several users, including Kasko Xero Vlogs stated she was using the incident for fame and money. In Abigail’s complaint, her lawyers accused her of making “a job out of preying on individuals from behind a keyboard,” and “inciting hate” online.

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Ijeoma and her lawyer, Tracey Hinson, have defended the YouTuber profiting from her experience with Abigail. In 2021, Ijeoma said on X, formerly Twitter, that she was well within her rights to “make $ off MY videos if everyone else is.”

The entrepreneur’s attorney also believed it’s her client’s “right” to discuss the situation however she sees fit, especially after being deemed a liar by many in the Milburn community.

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“She knew that in Millburn, New Jersey, she would not be believed,” Hinson stated. “And that is exactly what has transpired.”

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Travis Kelce Revealed the Inspiration Behind His Mustache

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Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce is back to rocking a mustache, and it’s all thanks to head coach Andy Reid. Read on for more details.

Travis Kelce shows off his mustache during the Chiefs-Bears game on Sept. 24, 2023.
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The Gist:

  • Travis Kelce is making headlines for his relationship with Taylor Swift.
  • The media interest is bringing attention to his appearance, specifically his mustache.
  • In August 2023, he revealed he brought back the ‘stache because he wanted to change his look.

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As he continues to dominate the headlines for his rumored relationship with singer-songwriter Taylor Swift, Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce is changing up his look. The two-time Super Bowl champion is rocking a mustache these days — why is that? Does it have anything to do with the “Cruel Summer” singer?!

Keep reading for all the known details!

An injured Travis Kelce debuted his mustache during the Chiefs-Lions game on Sept. 7, 2023.
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Travis Kelce brought back the mustache for “fun.”

On Aug. 2, 2023, the Chiefs’ official X (formerly known as Twitter) account revealed Travis’s bold new facial hair: “The stache is back,” they announced alongside a photo of the four-time All-Pro at training camp.

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Travis, who’s considered one of the greatest tight ends of all time, showed off his mustache on Inside Training Camp Live. He joked that his new look earned him the nickname “El Travedor” before pointing out that this isn’t the first time he’s embraced the ‘stache life.

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“It’s just having fun at camp, man, trying to switch up the look,” Travis explained the reason behind his mustache. “You get sick of looking at yourself in the mirror with all this fur on your face, and then shoutout to Andy Reid, baby. It’s the ‘stache time, baby! The power of the ‘stache.”

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So, there you have it: Travis Kelce’s mustache has nothing to do with Taylor Swift and everything to do with the Chiefs longtime head coach, Andy Reid (he makes a ‘stache look extremely cool).

Travis Kelce’s mustache has received a mixed response

Some are loving the ‘stache, but others, not so much.

“Now he looks like a creep,” one fan shared on X, while another asked, “WHY DOES HE KEEP DOING THIS?!”

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“Travis Kelce needs to get rid of that mustache,” a third person replied, adding that he’s “lookin’ like somebody Deputy Sheriff.” Well, they’re not wrong…

Someone else agreed, jokingly commenting that “Highway Patrol Kelce” is “def pulling you over, tapping the car roof, and telling you to hold tight because you’re going to jail.”

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Who Is Morgan Presley Dating?

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Who is TikToker Morgan Presley dating?

The Gist:

  • We break down who popular TikToker Morgan Presley is currently dating.
  • She met her most recent partner on Tinder in 2022 and “fell hard” for him.
  • Morgan claims to have been neglected and mistreated in previous relationships.

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Having once been known for her colorful and vibrant hairstyles, Morgan Presley (@morganpresleyxo) has since become a major TikTok icon. She typically shares bizarre meme videos, fun GRWM content, and exciting life updates for her 5.7 million followers on TikTok. She also has 474 thousand followers on Instagram.

Another major part of her content comes in the form of memes and trendy videos that she takes with her boyfriend.

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Morgan has taken several romantic partners over the years and even eventually got to the point where she considered never dating again. However, her current boyfriend seems to be the one for her and she has dedicated plenty of videos to show him off. Here’s the latest on who Morgan Presley is currently dating.

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Who is Morgan Presley currently dating?

As of this writing, Morgan is dating a man named Lou, whose full name is unknown. He is also active on TikTok (@loudaboo) and has over 117.7 thousand followers. According to a TikTok posted by Morgan in mid-August 2022, she had met him on Tinder and they immediately hit it off. She admitted to have only used the app up until that point for casual flings after a series of previous relationships that fizzled out, but things changed when she met Lou.

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While Morgan claimed to have been “neglected” in past romances and “swore off relationships” for a while, she said that Lou completely changed her mindset.

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“It felt like were together for years,” Morgan proclaimed in her TikTok. “I fell hard for him and it was mutual. He fell too.”

At the time, they had only been on a few of dates together, but the two of them seemed sure that they were meant to be.

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“I’ve never known my worth and I’ve always settled for less because I thought that was just reality, but there are people out there that will treat you the way you want to be treated,” she said about Lou. “I am now a taken woman. I am no longer a single pringle.”

From that point on, the two of them have spent plenty of time together with Lou showing up in many of Morgan’s videos. In late August 2023, the two of them even signed a lease on a new house and have since moved in together.

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Several other outlets seem to confirm that in the past, she dated a man named Guillermo Abreu. Needless to say, they have since broken up.

These days, Morgan seems more than happy to keep rolling with the new chapter in her life with Lou.

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